The Domme Diaries

An Audacious Year of....

2010-12-28T08:00:00.000-08:00

The Photo Shoots (Dominista, Fetish or just expressions of parts of my world)
Prized pets I've met, (may we link in the future dearest)
1 performance I wont forget ( Mo Beasley's Urban Erotica at the Bowery & Jersey City)
1 performance regret (November UE...sincerest apologies for my absence),
Sitting in rooms with great views from the Great Renair of Vaginese, Ask Arielle and the Wonderfully Loud n Audacious Goddess of Love Sex Dating and Drama Abiola TV
The endless material that some idiotic and beautiful fellow Doms/Dommes bottoms, subs, and kinky ones bestow (that continues at this very hour mind ya lol)
The interestingly great sessions that I have rain sleet hail or snow
Cheers to the road to Seminar/Webinar bazaars ( Audacious Grand Thank You to The Grand Sexologist S. Denise Chisolm. I do hope to meet greet and learn with new kinsters/kinkstresses who seek to learn a lil something
to feel a lil something
to treat themselves to a lil something different
which isn't so different come to think of it when the main message in all realms is Love...
Loving the skin you're in
Loving the kink within

These have been The tasty tales of The Domme Diaries.
SINCEREST THANK YOU for enjoying this year with me.

DOMINATE YOUR DESTINY ...
the fantasy continues...

Delightful Disclaimer – ‘The Domme Diaries' may or may not always be direct adventures of Aura Dynamo. Names, dates and anything else that might prove otherwise have been omitted to protect some of the innocent and a few grand idiots.

"Go do something Audacious with yourself and enjoy the memories!" - Aura Dynamo

Audacity Of… © 2010

Wolf in Shy Sheep's Clothing...

2010-12-01T11:14:00.000-08:00

Oh 'shy sheep's' in wolf's clothing in this particular entry. I swear if there's one thing I do not dig in particular in the Professional circuit it's the 'gents' who attempt to Top from the bottom. That is an expression associated with folks who solely seek their own gratification through means of 'submitting' when they're really bottoms who don't have etiquette or concept of Dominance.

Some of you may be asking, "What's the difference. Whelp your 'average' (I say that loosely) bottom or kinkster has a theme/fantasy in mind and quite often it's particular in nature. They like/lust/love what they enjoy without all the other features/learning within Kink D/s BDSM attributes. Unlike the submissive/slave who feels/knows that their gratification is granted as rewards for their service. The submissive relinquishes control completely and entrusts the Dom/Domme knows best how to push personal envelopes while enjoying the liberties of being in careful hands so to speak.

In a 'pay for play' stance, some folks sometimes feel "I should get what I pay for" Sure...however, the delicate balance within Professional D/s, the general rules STILL APPLY regarding ensuring that BOTH the Dom/Domme and the bottom/sub are equally satisfied in accordance to the session they've agreed upon. As there's the saying, without a responsive bottom/sub/slave, the Dom/Domme somewhat ceases to exist in the two way street of D/s relations. For the Pro Domme who truly enjoys sessioning, it is always about maintaining that balance despite the notion of being paid. It can get tricky hence why I often say I professionally purvey Kink/fantasies within the Art of Domination.

If you remember a few blogs back, I expressed a dislike for play scenes that are too scripted. Here's another 'fashionable play write' who wished to session with me...

Dear Mistress,
Your ad did not contain your name,
I am a leather fetishist who loves to worship beautiful women such as yourself wearing leather.
Enclosed are my session notes for your consideration. If you consent to allow me to submit to you
let me know your tribute for an hour and where you are located.
Respectfully,

Subject: session notes
------------------------
i am a fetishist and not a masochist and do not enjoy pain at all.

WOULD YOU WEAR A Leather OUTFIT and black
leather thigh high boots If you have long leather gloves it would be nice
items needed-collar,leash and a light flogger
READ THIS ABOUT me PLEASE:

WHEN i VISIT A NEW MISTRESS FOR A FIRST
SESSION i am little NERVOUS and FRIGHTENED.
i might even be shaky.
To help me feel more comfortable could YOU allow me a HUG.(very important)
This usually puts me at ease after a short
time. The way YOU will see me has
nothing to do with YOU.
i am UNCOMFORTABLE with my submissive side and it causes the nervousness.
Don't get the wrong idea but the HUG will really help if YOU
are willing. i hope YOU are compassionate enough to understand.
After the HUG it will not take me long to
calm down and get back to myself.
Once we begin our time together i will be fine.
A face slap or two would be helpful
It is IMPORTANT that we begin our session this way.
It should only take 3 minutes.Leaving you 57 minutes to take possession of me.
Enter the room with a stern look and immediately place a COLLAR around my
neck and pull on it and tell me as long as i wear this collar you own me.
Attach the leash and Pull real HARD on the
leash and put my face in the cup
of YOUR hand.
If you wish several face slaps will add to the session
Make me look into YOUR eyes and tell me that
i am now YOUR slave and i must obey what ever
YOU say. Ask me if i understand. Then force me on the floor and place your
booted foot on my cheek and repeat what YOU just told me.
If you like YOU can press down firmly with YOUR heel and pull
real HARD on the leash and then kick me several times.
Then order me to clean YOUR leather boots.
i am certain with YOUR experience YOU will
know what to do. This whole thing should take about 3 minutes
plus the time YOU need for me to clean YOUR boots to YOUR satisfaction.
i will now be soooooo submissive and ready for YOU to enjoy yourself.
By starting EXACTLY this way i will be the most submissive slave YOU have
ever encountered.
[DO NOT TOUCH MY NIPPLES]
THINGS I LIKE But can be offered at Your discretion or NOT be off
To be hugged
To kiss Your butt
To kiss any part of Your body
The touch of leather
For you to touch my face
Rub my stomach
Rub my butt in circles
To be told i am a good slave
To be told i have pleased you
To have the leash pulled real hard or just the collar
To be kicked in the butt with your knee
Any contact with Your boots
To be stroked behind the ear
--------------------------------------
I hope it will not take you so long to respond
Sincerely
'wolf'

Whoa is me to fantastic idiots in the kinky village.
this guy is "UNCOMFORTABLE with [his] submissive side." Oh come now...how many Mistresses has he seen with this contradictory cut and paste self serving doctrine? Along with the fact that it says in plain print on my ads, I'm a Sensual Sadist! Although I'm very capable of playing in the 'Softer Side of Kink', part of sadism for me is to administer of pain pleasurably (levels vary). I could've easily told him to howl n gargle on some silicon nuts with this fantastically fanatical bullshit. BUT that would not be the Audacious Aura that you the reader and me the writer have grown to admire and adore within my Domme-dom.

In customary Aura-dacity style and grace, my reply went as follows...

'wolf', is it?
Apparently in topping from the bottom in 'shy sheep's clothing'.

Although this is D/s in the professional sense, PLEASE let me stress to you I am a Lifestyle Domme who purveys levels of Kink D/s Artfully as I am indeed naturally a Sensual Sadist. I was brought into the BDSM fold with some of the sensibilities of the 'Old Guard' while growing with 'new eyes' in the present. Even in fulfilling themed requests, I still maintain the balance of control from one who wishes to submit.

My ad didn't contain my name because I enjoy speaking with people vocally (with adherence to my enjoyment of time and genre of conversation). But emails are just as effective due to my penchant for writing.

I'm elated that you are a leather fetishist who loves to worship beautiful Women wearing leather. However, Your session notes are entirely TOO SCRIPTED which comes across as topping from the bottom. I have a GRAVE DISDAIN for such behavior.

Your "session notes" means you are solely interested in filling faces into the 'role' as oppose to someone who can enlighten and delight herself through/with your 'theme'. What is a Dominant without full knowledge and control of herself and her pleasures first sensually and/or corporal inclined? She's a leaf blowing in the wind of others intent and that's NOT me. I'm fair but I'm FIRM in mind body and Spirit as I'm keenly aware of who and how I am.

Although this is a 'paid' notion of D/s, I'm the one who still dictates and controls the particulars within the theme and one who bottoms, or submits entrusts that he or she will walk away well cared for as I will walk away with more knowledge and understanding along with my appetite fulfilled. I appreciate you feeling compelled to reach out to me. However, this aspect of your "session notes" is not appreciated quite frankly. I understand that you like what you like within the limits and scope of what you're seeking. However, you must understand that a Woman of my stature is NOT a cookie cutter Domme.

I will have to decline your request to gain further audience with me at this present time.
I do wish you the best of luck on your continued search.

Best,

I probably could've attempted to 'flip the script'. However, the 'client dictate' is TOO SCRIPTED. I have no qualms with hugging someone even in a D/s realm if I so choose to. However, to TELL me that one would become most submissive by following "EXACT" steps is ludicrous and quite frankly disrespectful to those such as myself who have a keen sense of who and how we are within the catalyst of D/s. What he failed to realize about himself is the 'simple' fact that we (Professional and/or 'private' Dom/Dommes and/or submissives who respect the 'rules within the mental sensibilities of this craft) are exploratory THINKING and FEELING individuals within the collective BDSM community.

I'm actually Twitter friendly although I may be streaming random thoughts in my own altered states of my reality. Feel free to find me there http://twitter.com/Audacity_Of where random Audaciousness continues. Also, you can find me via Face Book under Aura Dynamo if we’re not connected already. Don't forget to send a message when you make that 'friend request'. At least I'll know where ya found me. If you can't find me, leave your FB name/profile at audacityof@gmail.com so I can find you.

Delightful Disclaimer – ‘The Domme Diaries' may or may not always be direct adventures of Aura Dynamo. Names, dates and anything else that might prove otherwise have been omitted to protect some of the innocent and a few idiots.

"Go do something Audacious with yourself and enjoy the memories!" - Aura Dynamo

Audacity Of… © 2010

**3rd & 4th photos captured by Holly Daggers for Wet Circuit LIC**

Forward Movement - Learning Curves

2010-11-21T10:00:00.000-08:00

Top,middle, or the bottom of the day to you wonderful voyagers of the kinky tundra and beyond. As usual customary thanks for all those who've come into my sphere of being, doing, learning and growing. Also thank you to the new point and clickers from here to London and Sweden. Yes y'all, I received a warm shout out from those two places on the map.

It is officially year 3 of this independently outwardly Human sense-ploration of the kinky kind for me and must say it has been an uphill movement like the little yodeling cliff hanger dude from the price is right . Minus the falling off the mountain though lol. As my personal ambition is in full throttle and goals shift with new points of view; I must say I'm humbly grateful to be able to share these moments with you. To express these dynamics of D/s, kink, and BDSM as a Human experience is a gift.

Speaking of gifts, the gift of learning is always present. I've recently sought out some Domme-ly guidance from peers who are crafts Women and men within the scope of BDSM and I gotta tell ya, although I know quite a bit, I'm ALWAYS learning something new whether it's a skill (e.g. Proper Needle Play 102-103 as Artistic Expression)

Or becoming more acclimated within the different sensibilities of the Lifestyle scene. Although I'm not one to frequent any one place or space at any given time, I realize that establishing and maintaining a sincere presence within the community and the Art that I represent is imperative.

There are also the submissive/slave dynamic that I'm constantly learning about on both sides of the spectrum. Being a Dommissive (Dominant in many areas of my life and profession; submissive with my chosen 'Dom'/intimate life).

It's important to me since I personally identify myself and all that I do within the lifestyle (not just the busy business bottoms/kinksters)to convey that we are living breathing THINKING & feeling Spirits. Although my Diaries consist of tails of triumph and few fellow follies, There is much respect given and received from both Dom/Domme and submissives.

The Great Lifestyle Doms/Dommes who some happen to be on the Professional scenes aren't the ones who have the most clients or the ones who have a massive stable of subs/slaves. They aren't the ones who have all the equipment and Fetish Fashions and show up at all the play parties. The Great lifestyle Doms/Dommes where some of them are on the Professional sides are the ones who can RELATE in and outside of the realms of kink D/s BDSM within a HUMAN scope of thinking being and doing. When I started this blog it was with the notion of inviting a few into the fold of my travels and thoughts in a subject that has so many layers and has so many outward and/or obscure viewpoints. The Great Lifestyle and/or Professional Dom/Dommes have a keen sense of of themselves through the catalyst of kink. They overstand the importance of growth through learning and being responsible within themselves and their counterparts. Essentially, I am my kinky brothers/Sister's keeper.

Hey you curiously kinky one, I'm actually Twitter friendly. Feel free to find me there http://twitter.com/Audacity_Of where random Audaciousness continues. Also, you can find me via Face Book under Aura Dynamo if we’re not connected already. Don't forget to send a message when you make that 'friend request'. At least I'll know where ya found me. If you can't find me, leave your FB name/profile at audacityof@gmail.com so I can find you.

Delightful Disclaimer – ‘The Domme Diaries' may or may not always be direct adventures of Aura Dynamo. Names, dates and anything else that might prove otherwise have been omitted to protect some of the innocent and a few idiots.

"Go do something Audacious with yourself and enjoy the memories!" - Aura Dynamo

Audacity Of… © 2010

**1st photo captured by Holly Daggers for Wet Circuit LIC**
**2nd photo captured by Aeric Meredith-Goudon**
**3rd photo captured by Phantom Photos for Audacity Of...**
**4th photo captured by EJS Photo Works**

2010-10-25T08:00:00.000-07:00

My Sensational Sensual Sensible journey thus far has me spreading my flogger and the kinky gospel to you and I thank you for being a receptive audience (give your beautiful asses a round of smacks).

Sincerely, I'm thanking every/anyone who has been indulging their kinky curiosity via me being your 'tour guide' on the adventures beyond the 'typical' moments. I had a most terrific time via the Safe Sane Sensorium of Sexuality earlier this month with wonderful hostesses Sheila Nichole Bradley & the miraculous Dr. S. Denise Chisolm who really made this a great experience.

As I continually bask and build in the afterglow of beautiful warm faces within a most delightful intimate atmosphere, I was elated to feel the joy of bestowing kinky knowledge with a hands on flair. I personally FEEL that discussions within the scope of sensuality (breaking down myths of Domination and bringing sensuality to the forefront) are equally as important as actually getting you the reader or in the case the great participants of an actual Sensible Sensual Work/Play-shop involved. I do hope the kinky candles, rope and all the other goodies purchased compliments of Sheila N. have been put to good use repeatedly ;o)

Of course all working play and no leisure play in the life makes these stories a bit on the bland side and so I can share with you a bit of adventure which is right on time with the upcoming elections (go get informed and participate in the upcoming local elections my little lovelies as these are equally (if not more) important as the BIG show (presidential election).

...and now a story from Kink-ville as it has been a while since I gave y'all something to clutch your pearls about ;o)

More often than not, there are adventures in kink/fetish; D/s, that are indeed a bit on the 'wild side' to some but so much fun to others and the 'golden' opportunity of 'marking ones territory' comes up (or goes down lol). Recently, I had a play-date off the clock with a few fine fun Dominas I associate with. Occasionally a friend of mine would have a informal gathering where she'd lend her personal kink slave for our entertainment of the Domme kind. This moment will be known as the 'Republican 'P' Party'. Now the only reason why is because this darling puppy just happened to be a republican...so it has not slight on whomever identifies with that 'set'.

Anyway, this particular owned puppy was a very good boy by being our loyal servant as we munched on assorted goodies and tasty libations with foot massages and other random acts of domestic servitude. While we all caught up with our worldly comings and goings, it was explained to us that he had a personal penchant with 'water sports' and for him being such a diligent submissive who succumbed to our whims (hard spankings, tease and denial, and a healthy heap of humiliation to boot) we were to reward him with our organic 'golden nectar'. This 'splash fest' was controlled for the most part as he assumed laying position looking upward of garter thigh highs and heels in full anticipation. We stood around and began one by one blessing the body with our gracious gold. His ambition almost made him drown at one point LOL (I know...I shouldn't be laughing but damnit it was funny)
Not to knock some of my 'sisters of Domme-ly debauchery' but I personally feel that if you engage in play of this magnitude, you should at least properly prepare by drinking a lot of water and/or one of my favorites; pineapple juice.

I'm just saying...Don't sleep on the power of the pineapple (or celery or even a honey baked ham sandwich if you eat the "other white meat") It makes the 'tasters choice' experience a bit easier on all parties involved. Nonetheless, a fun evening filled with comedy and warm 'womanly rains' was a great thing.

Priceless memories LOL. Speaking of edu-taining Kinstress memories, a wondrous query came across my keyboard recently by the ever engaging Arielle Loren via 'Ask Arielle' section of http://zora-alice.com.

You can read my fist full of words via the short article here http://zora-alice.com/2010/10/ask-arielle-how-do-you-prepare-for-more-intense-sexual-play-like-fisting/

In between surfing in my own dualities and kinky consultations, I'm intently tinkering with the next GRAND EVENT ON SATURDAY 11/20/2010 better known as Urban Erotika in conjunction with For Her Eyes and Ears Only at Jordan's Lounge in Jersey City, NJ.

Advance tix sales via www.forhereyesandearsonly.weebly.com

Hey you curiously kinky one, I'm actually Twitter friendly. Feel free to find me there http://twitter.com/Audacity_Of where random Audaciousness continues. Also, you can find me via Face Book under Aura Dynamo if we’re not connected already. Don't forget to send a message when you make that 'friend request'. At least I'll know where ya found me. If you can't find me, leave your FB name/profile at audacityof@gmail.com so I can find you.

Delightful Disclaimer – ‘The Domme Diaries' may or may not always be direct adventures of Aura Dynamo. Names, dates and anything else that might prove otherwise have been omitted to protect some of the innocent and a few idiots.

"Go do something Audacious with yourself and enjoy the memories!" - Aura Dynamo

lets have a toast to the Audacious Ones...

Audacity Of… © 2010

Nice Work If You Can Get It

2010-09-22T12:43:00.001-07:00

Good ole Tony Bennett sang it best, "Nice Work If You Can Get It". YES shaking that money tree (climbing it occasionally but always keeping the grass watered around the base (aka my mind).

BUT before I get to my 'song n dance', I must say thank you in advance to dearest Abiola 'Passionista' Abrams and Kristal 'The Texas Dred' Mosley for inviting me to joyfully enter her world on L.S.D (Love, Sex, Dating and/or Drama). For those who have missed the edu-taining episode 15, please feel free to copy and paste this link underneath the photo and be ready to laugh along with us.

http://www.abiolaabrams.com/shovio_love_sex_dating_show.html

Grand Greetings Sultry Sensual Salutations once again dear kinksters & kinkstresses. Thank you for permitting me to detain your moments in time to read about a few ticks on my clock.

There are two main sentiments and/or queries I enthusiastically receive; "I want to be trained to be a Dominatrix." Or, "How can I make money being a Dominatrix."
I feel it's utterly necessary to at least begin the dialog now considering I'm gaining new audience members via this blog and I'm engaging in more exhibition play outside of the 'normal' BDSM scene such as my first home; Urban Erotika and other forums/stages I appear on.

Although I engage in Professional Domination partly for a living; I also indulge in this realm for the like/love and appreciation of the Art generally speaking. Some days I like it, but most days I love it. Like most 'jobs' people do I suppose. However, this is not something to be taken lightly whether private pleasure or public purveyor ship. There is A LOT of information (and mis-information) out there in the world and if someone is training with me (private/purveyor), I need to be responsible for myself as well as who I'm potentially bestowing vital information. It is a learning process for us both (as I can Graciously admit I do not know everything and I'm still perfecting my craft as time proceeds. Part of being a great teacher is also being a great student no matter how long you've been in the game.)

There are those within the 'lifestyle' who feel that Professional Dominants (or Professional submissives) ruin the 'organic nature' of Dominance. Not entirely true if you are in the know of the psychology and sensitive sensibilities surrounding this intimate area of 'expertise'. ESPECIALLY if you truly like/love what you're doing. I sometimes get flack for revealing that I purvey my brands of kink within some circles. Doesn't leave a warm and fuzzy feeling I can tell ya. I was at one event and I became figuratively surrounded by a barrage of questions from fellow Dominas asking, "how can you proclaim to be lifestyle if you're making money?" Are you here (at the party) to make money?" and all the other questions that become a hint more intrusive instead of delightful insightful banter between Dominas. Now I will admit I went to do a bit of research regarding how parties of this magnitude are created (vibes, general aesthetics etc...as I do have a silent goal to introduce BDSM/Kink to the broader spectrum audience (those who aren't in the life but want to dip their toes in the pool ;o) But I also went to the party to meet and greet fellow Dominas, play with selected submissives of interest and more so to get 'outdoors' so to speak considering that 'side' of me is in the open. Going to a 'regular' club with someone on a leash might not go over so well all the time. Sometimes you just want to be around like minds in an atmosphere that's conducive to letting your hair down (or leash lol).

BUT I slightly digress from the course of this blog. As I 'shake the money tree', there are the main thoughts I internally rock my whip to...

1 - Personal check on myself - personal head space. Knowing who and how I am first and foremost and always conducting a personal 'check and balance'. I DO NOT work under the influence of personal issues (going into a session overtly angry even if it's a ball busting wail on someone's ass incessantly) or anything else for that matter. I'm dealing with other people's lives inevitably and I NEED to be on point (even if some of the patrons are ignorant to that fact. Someone has to be the voice of reason especially if they're wishing experience my brand of Domination). Safe, Sane and Consensual play is very relative on all scales.

2 - Solicitation, sales and marketing - effective strategies in appropriate markets/forums. KNOWING your levels of expertise where and how to market yourself effectively. There's so many forums and I have to figure/factor those things.

3 - Psychology - mentally and physically. Gage, meet & greet of potential patrons. COMMUNICATING effectively in regards to what realms of their kink they are wishing to experience.

Wearing kick ass clothes and beating up on people IS NOT a reason to engage in this realm. Thinking this is some get money quick scheme IS NOT a reason to engage in this realm on a professional stance. That is if you intend on enjoying what you do. If you're thinking those things, you better sit your ass down and really rethink your reasons and what you wish to get out of it. If you 'come in' under those pretenses, you will not have a good time with it personally and especially professionally. Although fun, THIS IS A MENTALLY INCLINED style of life out of the many styles of life (aka lifestyles).

I am formulating teaching/training/hands on workshops seminars/webinars for those who want to know realms of kink/BDSM with those who are interested in either the personal play and/or professional sides. Please know, you must invest in yourself if you REALLY want to stretch your minds and grow in your kinky spirits.

NEXT MONTH SATURDAY 10/9, you can indulge your curiosity and join me your resident Kinktress along with the Grand Sexologist (no really she's officially an honorary P.H.D-er within human sexuality) Dr. S. Denise Chislom for a SEXXXY Edu-taining experience.(all pertinent information to be disclosed upon YOU confirming your attendance.) http://sensoriumofsexuality.weebly.com

Hey you curiously kinky one, I'm actually Twitter friendly. Feel free to find me there http://twitter.com/Audacity_Of where random Audaciousness continues. Also, you can find me via Face Book under Aura Dynamo if we’re not connected already. Don't forget to send a message when you make that 'friend request'. At least I'll know where ya found me. If you can't find me, leave your FB name/profile at audacityof@gmail.com so I can find you.

Delightful Disclaimer – ‘The Domme Diaries' may or may not always be direct adventures of Aura Dynamo. Names, dates and anything else that might prove otherwise have been omitted to protect some of the innocent and a few idiots.

"Go do something Audacious with yourself and enjoy the memories!" - Aura Dynamo

Audacity Of… © 2010

Processing Thoughts - Dungeon Dance

2010-09-07T02:16:00.000-07:00

Top Mid or Bottom of the day to you and thank you for visiting yet another fine moment of The Domme Diaries. My multidimensional musings are brought to you by the good creators of coffee. Yep, 'they sleep we grind' is a Living Artist's motto and I can attest to that. I can't help it if I wanted to. I enjoy funneling, feeding, and feeling the energies that make these moments possible.

If you're a new subscriber/follower of The Domme Diaries, a most sincere welcome to this part of kink-ville where I enthusiastically share my thoughts, deeds and experiences with your lovely eyes and perhaps your partially virginal mind.

In this 'Domme Diary' entry, I'll be taking you on a short 'school' trip. Destination, Dungeon town (why is the song "Funky Town" moving through my head at this moment? ;o). In this realm of purveyor-ship/style of life, when I suggest to a potential client that a Dungeon space can be utilized if they cannot host or meeting greeting and beating for whatever 'personal' reasons, I'm often met with opposition to the notion. Being an Independent Pro-Domme, I've always asked why and the responses I usually receive are "Dungeons are so commercial" Or, "I'm scared that we're not really playing in private." Or, "I just don't like it". Some/most of these potential playmates haven't even ventured inside an actual Dungeon. They are solely going off of notions of 'lack of an intimate experience'. Or some/most of the 'resident Dominas' lack the proper training/personality mentally and instrumentally. There's a few other random thoughts that may be partially valid, but for me personally; the people I encounter simply do not understand or rather they are ignorant the workings of a proper Dungeon experience in general.

ah nothing says 'higher learning' than a short Dungeon room tour set to classical music ;o)

Legal Eagles and the commerce of Dungeons
There have been many tales of wow and woe hit quite a few areas of 'commercial' Dungeons over the years due to irresponsible actions/judgments of a few Dominas/Management. In my personal opinion, it's the 'decency laws' (state/country laws vary) that place fantasy clubs that do not engage in sexual intercourse per say, but attempt to dictate what inevitably goes on in (and outside)appropriate venues. Even in your very own personal bedrooms. Unfortunately, quite a few Dungeons have had issues of mis-guided/Mis-informed Mistresses and mis-used facilities where most management/owners only care about the 'bottom line$'. When Dungeons are shut down, usually it's because someone made a grave mistake out of financial desperation for whatever reason and a case was built up against the facilities to begin with. The BDSM/Kink community is rather 'small' in the more tight knit hardcore circles and it can be a viral blemish that's hard to bounce back from. From a legal standpoint, sex workers (yes Professional Domination falls under that category and double jeopardy ensues when very unfavorable things happen as most things if done for monetary reasons is deemed prostitution. One most definitely must be abreast of the working laws applicable in your state/city. A lot of the laws are not clear cut (or easily researched quite frankly) and with more and more 'Dominas' who are NOT really in it for the ART &/or the self expression of KINK D/s, the more terrible mishaps occur. This makes it extremely difficult for Dommes like myself who innately have it within them and wish to venture into kink whether personally or professionally. As some of these 'laws' can cross over into the personal space as well. There has been quite a few cases where couples have played in the 'privacy' of their own homes only to be penalized and ostracized by the judicial system.

Nonetheless, most Dungeons often times provide a neutral private play space for both Dominants and submissives. They also enable both parties to become engulfed in the fantasy/scene they want to experience. There are quite a few across the country that are safe, well maintained and efficiently equipped for most safe sane and consensual play either in the 'lifestyle' and 'Professional' realms. Most are located discreetly in fairly accessible commercial buildings upon following proper protocol such as placing an appointment to either be serviced by resident Dominas. Or in certain Dungeons, you can rent space out by the hour for a private session with an Independent Domina (or couples).

Hmmm I foresee a Dungeon visit in the near future as it's been a little while since I've been on that dance floor ;o)

Hey you curiously kinky one, I'm actually Twitter friendly. Feel free to find me there http://twitter.com/Audacity_Of where random Audaciousness continues. Also, you can find me via Face Book under Aura Dynamo if we’re not connected already. Don't forget to send a message when you make that 'friend request'. At least I'll know where ya found me. If you can't find me, leave your FB name/profile at audacityof@gmail.com so I can find you.

Delightful Disclaimer – ‘The Domme Diaries' may or may not always be direct adventures of Aura Dynamo. Names, dates and anything else that might prove otherwise have been omitted to protect some of the innocent and a few idiots.

"Go do something Audacious with yourself and enjoy the memories!" - Aura Dynamo

Audacity Of… © 2010

**last photo captured by Devin Allen for Devin Allen Photography**

Nothing As Good As the First Time...

2010-08-26T00:23:00.001-07:00

Is an old saying, a lyric in countless songs and anywhere else you can recall hearing this sentiment.

This doesn't always reign true. In particular, the Head Master, Artist, Maverick and Sensual ring leader of us Soulful Children of Eros; Mo Beasley's Urban Erotika teamed up with the fabulous 'Head Doctor' Dr. S.Denise Chisholm of For Her Eyes & Ears Only for another GREAT Verbally Sensual and Kinky moment in time.

The 'Head Master' brought us out to Jordan's Lounge in Jersey City to celebrate Eros as we only know how to indulge in her through the portals of Sensual Artistic Sex-pression.

If you recall one of my DD entries where I was gearing up to perform at my first UE event, I was having such a time finding an open minded participant for my segment of the show. Oh how the Universe opens up sometimes...Maybe not when you need it but right on time nonetheless. It's all in the asking I suppose, but I digress. I discovered a wonderful friend who didn't mind participating and lending his darling canvas for a moment of spanking, candle play and as an added feature; light/polite knife play (expertise and trust required) ;o)

I enjoy expressing my brand of Sensual Art and bringing new kinksters into the fold of some areas of play I indulge in. If all else I mainly enjoy reaching out to those and letting them see that kink D/s play is something most adults can enjoy safely as there are many intimate layers within that style of life and beyond for that matter pertaining to Human Sexuality (and Sensuality).

There is a wonderful purposeful intent I had in mind when I decided to share this part of my duality. Besides exploring the Artistic side of myself via writing/kink exhibition and other realms; I'd truly like to further sensually and sensibly enrich those who are truly interested in the many shades of BDSM/Kink by conducting workshops (hands on exercises etc...please stay turned for those Domme-liciously Kinky moments in time)

Hey there, I'm actually Twitter friendly. Feel free to find me there http://twitter.com/Audacity_Of where the Audaciousness continues. Also, you can find me via Face Book under Aura Dynamo if we’re not connected already. Don't forget to send a message when you make that 'friend request'. At least I'll know where ya found me. If you can't find me, leave your FB name/profile at audacityof@gmail.com so I can find you.

Delightful Disclaimer – ‘The Domme Diaries' may or may not always be direct adventures of Aura Dynamo. Names, dates and anything else that might prove otherwise have been omitted to protect some of the innocent and a few idiots.

"Go do something Audacious with yourself and enjoy the memories!" - Aura Dynamo

Audacity Of… © 2010

**moments captured by Abigail Ekue**

Back In The Saddle

2010-07-11T17:58:00.001-07:00

Top/Mid/Bottom of the day to you contingent upon when you're reading this. This Domme is slightly fatigued these days to be honest with you. Summer heat, maintaining a social balance, perplexing work schedules and just wanting to excel to the next level of my ambitious Kink-dom has me a bit occupied.

Nonetheless, I'm still enjoying my realm as I spank myself into motion. I've managed to muster up a anecdote to titillate, stimulate or perhaps just put your brain on 'oh shit' mode for a moment.

Buckem Bronco is who I am in this particular tale lol. Some of you may remember the 'Real Sex' episode on HBO (many many and one more many years ago) with the 'Pony Ranch' where there were men and women who dressed up as horses and were either being trained and actually ridden via back or shoulders. Or you can just view this clip for a visual refresher compliments of the Museum of Sex if you're unsure about what I'm talking about. Please click this link href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v5V1LWy799g">

Yes, there are people (men and women) who are so much into the Equestrian Arts that they themselves wish to transfer/transmit and emulate feelings of being the horse. Being an Celestial Centaur aka Sagittarius, I can somewhat relate to the spirit of horses but I digress... From what I gathered through experience, it isn't about the sex of horseplay (people having sex with horses is GROSS in MY SANE opinion). But it does have to do with the mentality and physically being catered to and 'controlled' by the 'superior'. Although real life horses have the strength of many many Woman (&/or men), they submit themselves within trusting hands of their desired/chosen 'Masters'. The same kind of sensibility applies when engaging in this kind of play with another human. It's within the 'performance' of adorning the riding props (bridles, brow bands, reins, saddles and of course my favorite tool a ridding crop) on to the submissive. To engage in this kind of play as well as all forms of role playing scenarios, the Domme/Dom has to be able to exhibit and execute the emotional transference of this kind of play.

I had a most interesting session a few moons ago with a gent who wanted 'Pony Play'.
Here's his lovely letter to thee...

Dear Goddess,
I enjoyed reading your ad and I can tell you are someone of great stature by your photos and written demeanor. I'm usually very dominant on the outside but I have this fetish that brings me great joy and I'd like to experience it with you. I'm SM (single male), early 40's, good body and very respectful. I enjoy lift and carry sessions, spankings, boot worship, and horse play. I noticed you're into leash and collar puppy play but I wonder if you like horses? I have a lot of my own gear so that wouldn't be a problem. I just like to have a strong Black Goddess' on my back while she commands me to do whatever she wants.
Please let me know if this is something you desire.

Thanks
Your Pleasure Pony

I often times compare my Spirit to a horse roaming the fields, gazing and grazing at the possibilities of life lol. I thought to myself that this could be fun if he can indeed be the proper horse. I remember being a little girl getting pony rides from my uncles, but this was far from those fond childhood memories ;o) I'm a tall woman and have a solid physic so I wondered just how this was going to play out since I only saw the potential pony boy via photo.

The day came to finally see my little pony and he was indeed a bit smaller than me lol. I'm 5'11 and he was 5'7". So I knew I was in for a comically delightful session of sorts. He definitely didn't disappoint with the equestrian equipment. We started off with a very naked 'pony'. What naked pony isn't complete with one of these too. My pony was very receptive of my grooming techniques. Washing and grooming his mane and body which was indeed very nice AND it helped with a head full of dark hair. Brought us both to the space of horse and Master. I adorned him with a leather cockstrap, saddle, bridle etc... However him being as short as he was, the stirrups/spurs proved to be a bit much but he said he could handle it. After the ritual grooming and dressing, (sans hooves lol) I mounted my pony and initially his knees buckled. Can you just imagine me on the back of a guy who's a bit smaller than me. I'm not light on my ass mind you. After he/we got our bearings, my small but relatively strong pony began to 'gallop' around his house (he had ample space for this kind of play). We started off slow and graduated to a nice pace with the help of me cropping his ass and even lightly sticking him with my spurs. At one point I had to break the pony down because he almost threw me off his back. We ended our session kind of the same way we started, with me dismounting, dismantling and him drinking water out of a troff and nursing his rug burns LOL.

He and I had a great time with this particular role play. As I stated a couple of entries back, I'm not a Shakespearean kind of role playing Woman. But this one is indeed one of my favorites. Plus I look good in ass-less chaps ;o) (no picture of that yet dear voyeurs)

Hey there, I'm actually Twitter friendly. Feel free to find me there http://twitter.com/Audacity_Of. Also, you can find me via Face Book under Aura Dynamo if we’re not connected already. Don't forget to send a message when you make that 'friend request'. At least I'll know where ya found me. If you can't find me, leave your FB name/profile at audacityof@gmail.com so I can find you.

Delightful Disclaimer – ‘The Domme Diaries' may or may not always be direct adventures of Aura Dynamo. Names, dates and anything else that might prove otherwise have been omitted to protect some of the innocent and a few idiots.

"Go do something Audacious with yourself and enjoy the memories!" - Aura Dynamo

Post Urban Erotika Fun

2010-06-24T14:03:00.000-07:00

Don't fret Darlings. I'm gearing my head space for more Domme Diary shenanigans and thoughtful musings regarding the life and times in kinky-ville.

However, I must say that I had a spankaliciously wonderful time gracing the sexy sensual stage with an award winning performance poet, educator, author, and public speaker; the 'Headmaster' Mo Beasley and the rest of the very outrageously talented Urban Erotika family. Although, I'm more accustomed to exhibiting my brand of 'light hearted' play at more Fetish inclined events; I'm definitely into spreading the gospel on different genres of sex positive thinking, doing, and being. It was indeed a lovely environment to branch off into as I am a Living Artist as well as a Dominatrix.

I also must give a loving thank you to Madame 'ER' who came through in a pinch or in this case a spank ;o) Thank you dearest for lending me your beautiful bottom for a glorious event.

As I swim in the fishbowl of the world, I'll continue onward with my tales of triumphs, follies, and tantalizing tidbits shortly.

In the meantime my darling loud and proud or seductively silent sensual ones, be good to yourselves and each other.

Please feel free to follow me via Twitter http://twitter.com/Audacity_Of. Also, you can find me via Face Book under Aura Dynamo if we’re not connected already. Don't forget to send a message when you make that 'friend request'. At least I'll know where ya found me. If you can't find me, leave your FB name/profile at audacityof@gmail.com so I can find you.

Delightful Disclaimer – ‘Domme Diaries' may or may not always be direct adventures of Aura Dynamo. Names, dates and anything else that might prove otherwise have been omitted to protect some of the innocent and a few idiots.

"Go do something Audacious with yourself, and enjoy the memories" - Aura Dynamo

I guess I inspired him - The 'Domme' got spanked by the 'Headmaster' LOL

Audacity Of… © 2010

**moments captured by Neil Tandy of Image Photographers**

Aesthetics/Inner/Outer Race Relations & Kink/BDSM Part 1

2010-06-02T00:44:00.000-07:00

Hola como esta dear kinksters. Cheers to the ones loud and proud and those who remain underground with their brand of sexy. Sincere Thank You for those that have allowed me to detain your senses and hopefully edu-tained you about some things dealing with Kink/BDSM and how I rock with it.
I'm just going to get right to it.
This subject has dominated my mind for quite some time and I didn't (and still am unsure) about how to approach it. I'm somewhat in a heavy rush to seek out exhibition participants for Urban Erotika Saturday 6/19 Bowery Poetry Cafe...see flyer at the end of this entry or the last one (Percussion Play aka Spankings) Or check facebook/twitter/skype etc..

I tend to personally separate kink into the category of folks who just like certain fetishes and things done to/with them vs folks who are into the style of life (lifestyle of BDSM which contains many layers the same as a 'vanilla' relationship. Trust, Loyalty, Open Communication etc).
However, as I'm trying to search for a partner or partners with an 'open mind' for this kind of play and in this case Men of Color...It leaves me wondering,
where are all the brothers who like to play??
Where are the brothers I'm interested in, who are interested in kink/BDSM from a switch/submissive perspective (in the bedroom at least)?
I mean there's brothers who surely don't mind being (or proclaiming) they're Dominants within BDSM or abroad. As I look up the few African American Kink/Fetish/BDSM websites and random chat rooms across the map, I'm personally not enthused with the results (or there lack of)on the submission side of things.

I continually gain knowledge regarding the psychology surrounding being sensually submissive and what it means for some/most Black Men on a regular daily living basis to societal counter parts. This IS NOT a blog about that. This is a journal entry solely pertaining to kink/sex/sensibility/sensuality and BDSM in particular questioning 'our' (Black) presence in this area of play/lifestyle. I just figure you have sex and how you enjoy being/doing your thing is one of the few places where you can/should be free with your sexy selves. Or am I living in a sweet sticky nasty fantasy in my own brain regarding this.

I've danced around this subject considerably because it's so much to think about outside of the kink-room/Dungeon nonetheless in it. I'm almost certain I'm going to probably make a small series of thoughts/blogs on this part of The Domme Diaries. Race the first and maybe last frontier (or smoke-screen in my opinion). It's 2010 ya'll and this very subject still reigns supreme. Even in this realm. I'm going to just cover the basic cookie aka Black and White. Yes, there's other races that get in and carry on, but since I'm a Black woman, I can only express the nuances and my viewpoint from this perspective. Perhaps some thoughts will seem neutral. Others will seem down right one way. You dissect it the way you chose. Remember perception is the big deception often times. All we have is nuance of experience. Or mislead misguided thoughts from folks who haven't even bothered to venture into their sexuality/sensuality/sensitivity and sensibility in this realm and/or beyond.

BUT let me try to grab a hold of the subject at hand...

There's a moment of aesthetic attraction as we all know. Some/most white guys just don't do it for me. I guess you can say the sexy white guy syndrome is the same effect as the general aesthetic of the beautiful [Black] Woman syndrome. TV has dictated what's a good looking white dude to me. If there were a bunch of Brad Pitts or even George Clooneys into kink; my 'job' would certainly have it's dilemmas of fraternization with the 'client' past our session space. BUT it often times doesn't as I don't even have to fantasize about crossing those lines. Aesthetically, I'm not into 92% of the men who seek a kink facilitator (me). More importantly, there's a innate sensibility with 'my own' as oppose to 'the other'. Some simple questions like, "Your hair looks interesting, can I touch it?" just isn't part of the dialog with 'my own' counterparts. I'm accustomed to being in the 'looking glass' on that aspect, but I don't want that 'showroom' feeling during my more personal interactions.

Outside of that sentiment, there's the questions about what role Black men attaining a conscious sensibility about their own sexuality. Leaving room to be open with respect to their own ideas on what sex for them is/can be. Not too long ago I expressed the notion of receiving head from someone can be deemed as Dominant to one of my 'brothers'. I told him from the time she has decided to have intimate relations with you, she is already the Dominant. When she decides to indulge you as well as herself in a bit of 'organic mic talk' aka getting/giving head, you are no longer the Dominant. A seemingly 'submissive' act isn't that at all.(or he if applicable as my blogs aren't read by just hetero folk and it's important to cover ALL bases. There are lovely gay/lesbian players in Kink/BDSM too) because if she bites down, that's it! Sexy game over. So she (or he) kinda has you at their whim. Dare I say/admit there's definitive power with being a submissive at least in this retrospect.

The ratio of black submissives vs white who seek me out personally or professionally is staggering. Could this be the syndrome/notion of "white girls/guys are easy"? I mean all we see is the 'freely freaky liberated white' for the most part in sexual sensual situations. When you watch white porn do you associate them with 'having fun' vs black porn 'they're in it for the check' Or could it be that 'they' are just open to things because of their lack of sexual oppression (public or personal).

One can sit here and break down the white man vs white woman and how they communicate sexually. Black man vs black woman and how they communicate sexually. According to how I view it through nuances of experiences. That is a whole other chapter in the 'Diaries'.

Makes me really think about how 'our' past as Black People has rendered us paralyzed in many facets and in this case something as amazingly pleasurable as sexuality and more so sensuality and all the different sensibilities surrounding it.

Definitely to be continued....

Please save the date Saturday 6/19/10 at the Bowery Poetry Club in NYC. I will be having a bit of spanking fun at Urban Erotika.

If you're an adult (as only adults should be reading TDD), and truly enjoy your biggest sex organ played with (YOUR BRAIN). Please feel free to come and join us at this very sex positive event. Embrace the sensible and sexual Art within.

please feel free to follow me via Twitter http://twitter.com/Audacity_Of. Also, you can find me via Face Book under Aura Dynamo if we’re not connected already. Don't forget to send a message when you make that 'friend request'. At least I'll know where ya found me. If you can't find me, leave your FB name/profile at audacityof@gmail.com so I can find you.

Delightful Disclaimer – ‘Domme Diaries' may or may not always be direct adventures of Aura Dynamo. Names, dates and anything else that might prove otherwise have been omitted to protect some of the innocent and a few idiots.

"Go do something Audacious with yourself and enjoy the memories!" - Aura Dynamo

Audacity Of… © 2010

**photos captured by Devin Allen**

Organic Percussion Play/aka Spankings ;o)

2010-05-16T02:17:00.000-07:00

I remember when I use to get spankings from the original Domme aka my Mother. Oh how I hooted and hollered. Danced & wiggled around uncontrollably while she took that leather belt to my ass for some random infraction that I’m almost certain I was deserving of (lol). Many suns and moons later I’m in a most compromising position (having sex) and I discover that I enjoy a sexy ass slap (a few sexy firm ones more-so). I definitely can relate to the submissive side of pleasure pain transference and spankings. On occasion if I feel myself spinning into a stratos of 'big-headed-ness' or my anxiety is off the chart; a great spanking or flogging brings me 'back to earth'. As I’ve stated early on within this series, I am a Dommissive (a bit on the ‘sub’ side in my personal life these days as I do not have a qualm with myself to admit that.) Some Dominas and/or submissives find that contradictory to the D/s scene. “How can you be both?” is a question that I’ve been approached with occasionally when I express my brand of Domination. My assertive reply, “Dominance for me is about owning up to my own triumphs and follies. Checking and rechecking my emotions and thoughts. Bringing forth whatever it is I decide to do in my own style of life. To be a woman who Dominates her own existence. I just happen to like/enjoy kinky/fetishisms along the way under the umbrella of sensible sensual sexuality in a not so secular way. This separates me from most Dommes who simply perform.

Are there dickheads who attempt to either waste my time or forget they’re dealing with another human with the basic level of decorum? I’m sure my previous entries can answer that for you (lol). However, I mostly come across various sensible men (and very seldom women) who have pent up stresses or inner emotions that they feel they cannot tell anyone else. I’m present and accounted for the gent who may want to explore things with his spouse but hasn’t figured out his own personal qualms about ‘I’m unsure I want my wife to do this to me.” Or they don’t even know if they can bring up such discussions of their kink. If only for a moment, can they let go and be ‘free’ so to speak in the realm of their sensuality and kink-dom. I recall this one gentleman who said he didn’t feel alive in his everyday life and my spankings provided him with an outlet to be free through the wondrous stinging of a flogger across his ass. I guess you can say I beat the life into him ;o)

With that being said, as I'll always say, if you've ever indulged in a good sexy spanking in your bedroom from your trusting companion; you've entered Kink-ville.

Speaking of Adventures in Kink-ville, Please save the date Saturday 6/19/10 at the Bowery Poetry Club in NYC. I will be having a bit of spanking fun at Urban Erotika.

Lots of great performers sharing themselves and their brand of Sensual/Sex Positive Art to titillate and tantalize the sensual senses ;o)

More updates on that in the upcoming weeks leading to the Fantastic Sexy Spectacular event.

please feel free to follow me via Twitter http://twitter.com/Audacity_Of. Also, you can find me via Face Book under Aura Dynamo if we’re not connected already. Don't forget to send a message when you make that 'friend request'. At least I'll know where ya found me. If you can't find me, leave your FB name/profile at audacityof@gmail.com so I can find you.

Delightful Disclaimer – ‘Domme Diaries' may or may not always be direct adventures of Aura Dynamo, however one can never be too sure (lol) Names, dates and anything else that might prove otherwise have been omitted to protect some of the innocent and a few idiots.

"Go do something Audacious with yourself and enjoy the memories!" - Aura Dynamo

Audacity Of… © 2010

'Reality Bites'...

2010-04-26T17:29:00.000-07:00

Hello, Greetings, Hi, Salutations and all that fun jazz. I know I'm a hint overdue...Fetish farming for funds in this realm can be perplexing at times but I'm working it! In this case, it's really comically crazy at times.

Short case and point, someone felt compelled to reach out to me recently with this little ditty...

Cock-a-doodle-DON'T!
I'm 35yr old male and I have a fantasy that I would like to know if you can provide. Being tide down and face sat while have light cbt and cock biting and forced milking and getting a GS while sitting on my face

This is me at home looking crazy after reading that request!

What the ballbusting fuck?! Seriously LOL Seriously... "cock biting"... Let me just say for the record, I CANNOT STAND MOST SO CALLED BDSM PORN. Really. Most of these 'cinematic follies' are NOT REAL and they lead people to believe that some of these 'fantasies' can be attained. Or that some of them are really reflections on the status quo of most Dommes. You want to learn the minds of most people, follow them through their porn stashes (or music and books). Back the porn thought...there really needs to be clauses at the beginning and end of these regarding the sensibility factor. More than just the customary, 'folks are over 18yrs old at the time of this production yadda yadda yadda)

This 35yr old male is completely ignorant to the ART of TRUE Dominance (along with most the whores with whips in my biz).

This is one of those moments where CBT (cock & ball torture) would go terribly wrong. If I was a trifling Domme, I'd agree to some of the most outlandish shit just to get them into session and completely fuck them up LOL. BUT I'm one of the good ones plus I don't want that kind of headache. You know I Audaciously passed this one up.

My very short communique to him
Dear fantasy fucknugget
Thanks for reaching out to me. HOWEVER, I need to let you know what my proclivities are before we go any further because we are not in accord currently.

I have a tolerance for the following - spitting, face sitting/smothering (my anus and vagina will be covered at all times), body worship in the form of a back massage, ass worship (however NO oral, you may bury your nose smell the crack if that's your thing you may kiss my ass cheeks, but you may not lick my anus or vagina). As far as your 'forced milking' request... I'm only interested in dealing with strap on play in that regard so my fingers will not be visiting your arse for a long period of time. GS would be administered in the perching position only.

Hard limits (things I do not do) - full toilet/scat, blood letting, needle play (I currently do not have the proper medical needles needed to safely and effectively engage in this kind of play), knife play, serious edge play (e.g. kidnapping/blackmail), Overly scripted scenes, oral servitude of my genitalia (I do not require or desire that from anyone I'm sessioning with), Switch play, DEFINITELY NO COCK BITING (sincerely why the hell would I do that?? Ive seen it on kink/bdsm porn but I must let you know, most of that is NOT REAL BDSM. A ' Pro Domme' who puts cock in her mouth at any point during the session is merely a prostitute in Domme's clothing. A Lifestyle Domme who does better have went through the full ownership process of her personal prized pet/slave if that's how she chooses to play with him.)

Overall, we may not be a suited session match considering some of the things you're looking for. Best wishes on your continued search.

Fair yet Firm regards,

The only 'cock' I'm interested in biting is a dead baked/fried chicken (or rooster although I never had rooster I don't think...I digress)
I swear most boy/men know the basics of things and their 'fantasies' aren't off to the left after the age of 45. I find that I enjoy sessioning with older men unless they smell weird or something (yuck!).

I do hope you were delightfully entertained or at least not too disturbed LOL. Like I said, you want to know about someone, get into their sex mind, music or books and you'll figure out alot. I present me to you in all my gloriously Audacious splendor so keep reading as I sincerely appreciate it ;o)

In the meantime, please feel free to follow me via Twitter http://twitter.com/Audacity_Of. Also, you can find me via Face Book under Aura Dynamo if we’re not connected already. Don't forget to send a message when you make that 'friend request'. At least I'll know where ya found me. If you can't find me, leave your FB name/profile at audacityof@gmail.com so I can find you.

Works in progress - Audacity Of… via YouTube, live video webinars & blogtalkradio.com

Delightful Disclaimer – ‘Domme Diaries' may or may not always be direct adventures of Aura Dynamo, however one can never be too sure. Names, dates and anything else that might prove otherwise have been omitted to protect some of the innocent and a few idiots.

"Go do something Audacious with yourself and enjoy the memories!" - Aura Dynamo

Audacity Of… © 2010

**Domme Photos on this entry were captured by Andrew 'Drew' Jones**

Flipping The Script

2010-04-07T16:03:00.000-07:00

Please pardon my tardiness dear readers/fellow kinksters. I’ve been spinning around the stratos trying to keep my zany planet in orbit around the duality of my life in and outside of my Domme-dom.

I wanted to enjoy a bit of respite all the while giving you something hopefully hilariously enjoyable to read.

Flipping the script
On occasion I take on a challenge dealing in the realm of role play. There’s times when sessions are ‘cut and dry’. “I want to be tied, spanked, smacked and just teased a bit” so on and so on…, a potential playmate would say. Then there are these unique moments when someone comes at me with a script. I’m not a theatre major and I do not enjoy when scenes are too scripted out as this one was bestowed upon me one fine afternoon. For some, this would make it ‘easy’ to just follow the ‘script’ and the session is complete. For me however, Part of Dominating is perhaps succumbing to the challenge of pushing myself as well as the submissive outside the box.

Correspondence from the ‘Theatre Major’
I was interested in a one hour session with you. Depending on the activity your quote may vary, and your website suggested sending an email to you with fantasies. So here goes:

phase 1 (20 mins): all tease and denial; cuckolding

phase 2 (20 mins): verbal, psychological and some physical humiliation

e.g.: mocking, humiliating commands, comparing me with a real man, verbal insults, making fun of me in various ways, telling me how I could never get a woman like you, ridiculing how I need to masturbate while real men have girlfriends etc.,

Suggested insults, among others: loserfag with a small dick and bad breath, pathetic old pervert...

Suggested physical humiliation: spitting, face-slapping, pulling of hair, ears

phase 3 (20 mins): intense humiliation. No more laughing but disgust, hatred.
Intense interrogation about how much of a loser I am, yelling and screaming at me from up close; threats more face slapping. Session ends with a 60 second humiliation countdown after which I am forced to lick up my own cum and you make me beg for forgiveness to have wasted your time.

Please note that I should not get any inflicted physical punishments that leave more marks than temporary redness or minor bruises.

Respectfully Yours

Now either you’re thinking, “Who’s the Domme here?” or “Damn this dude knows how he likes it”. I thought to myself that it’s great that one knows himself to this degree on what’s going to get him off but more times than not, situations like this end up in someone not being satisfied with the end result. He was just looking for faces to fill the space in this case and not someone who could possibly add another twist or variety within the session. From what I know to be true for me (I stress that ‘for me’)…when I engage in session with someone, I initially ask about their proclivities and hard limits. Then I tell them mine and we come to some sort of accord as far as the theme of the session. Sessions like this tend to ruin it for me (personally and professionally) because it’s TOO SCRIPTED. Nowhere do I imply that I’m an actress. There’s times when I arrive at the session already at phase 3 because the gent had hygiene fail and I end up scolding them on the importance of cleaning their hairy gross asses properly with baby wipes or how body hair holds in funk hence why most of them are socially inept in the first place and need to be disciplined. Life Lessons their mamas (who should’ve been the original Dommes) totally left off at quite frankly.

Nonetheless, I accepted the challenge of this ‘Shakespearean’ request. Oh goodness gracious by Domme jeeze. This gent was a complete ass-hat! Within the first 20 minutes going into the transition of ‘Phase 2’; he became a stock raving pain in my ass “that’s not how it goes, do it like this, say it like this”. So you know I did what any pissed off Domme would do, I changed the scenario and turned into the eager to get this session over with Scary Bitch out of hell! I don’t yell but my voice drops very deep and disappointment leaves my fingertips with every smack to a face or ass or both. I heavily insulted his lack of imagination along with his sad sight of a penis, binded him face down ass up over a table and made him completely choke off of a ball gag that was shoved up his own ass first (ATM is indeed punishment and definitely NOT a reward for good behavior as most gents/fucknuggets do not like to taste their own nasty asses) and spanked him raw for wasting my time. All this completed in record breaking time of 40 minutes.

It became 'fun' for me at that point but not so much fun for him. He actually called me later that evening complaining that he couldn’t sit down on his ass and that he was going to have a hard time explaining to his wife why he’s not sleeping naked LOL.

I know I know... I was a bit cruel but sometimes, it’s the little victories at ‘work’ that make it worth while to continue down this yellow brick road (oh that statement makes me chuckle in more ways than one ;o).

Typing of which… stay tuned for Cross Dressing ‘Dorothy and Toto’ and drowning folks in the Yellow road (no ‘bricks’ because that’s NOT my thing (laughing wildly)

In the meantime, please feel free to follow me via Twitter http://twitter.com/Audacity_Of. Also, you can find me via Face Book under Aura Dynamo if we’re not connected already. Don't forget to send a message when you make that 'friend request'. At least I'll know where ya found me. If you can't find me, leave your FB name/profile at audacityof@gmail.com so I can find you.

Works in progress - Audacity Of… via YouTube, live video webinars & blogtalkradio.com

Delightful Disclaimer – ‘Domme Diaries' may or may not always be direct adventures of Aura Dynamo, however one can never be too sure. Names, dates and anything else that might prove otherwise have been omitted to protect some of the innocent and a few idiots.

"Go do something Audacious with yourself and enjoy the memories!" - Aura Dynamo

Audacity Of… © 2010

Unruly Oral Orchestra - occasional adventures in idiot-ville

2010-03-17T18:50:00.000-07:00

Gracious Goddess Thanks for tuning in for another round of Domme Diaries. It’s gritty kitty time! My past few blogs have been considerably ‘polite’. However, I’ve been having a perplexing time at ‘work’ lately. My ‘job’ is not easy overall as there are different attitudes to yield and wield my mental cocks-woman-ship around. Betwixt the fucknuggets who think they can approach me as if there aren’t any levels of decorum online as well as offline. I dare someone to walk up to me and ask me some of the shit I get the dis-pleasure of having to sift through via email & telephone. I swear that person better hope I am in a tolerable comedic mood and we know each other at that point because I’m liable to cordially spazz out and punch someone in the throat…I digress… Considering that my advertisements are fairly thorough as to what I will tolerate vs. what’s NOT on the menu of things to do. I along with a few other Dominas have expressed our disdain for this particular subject. The fucknuggets who want to provide ‘Oral Servitude’. Known as the oral slave or in crass vanilla terms…want to eat me out. AUGH...this situation occurs periodically when I get a string of applicants who proclaim they want to engage in Domination, but think that what they saw on some random fucking porn website is ‘real’ domination.

I don’t knock other Dommes for doing whatever it is they want to do with their sessions (pro and/or lifestyle) that have come up in the ranks of their Domme-dom. HOWEVER, I do knock the whores with ropes and whips who aren’t educated themselves in what Domination is vs. what it isn’t and just basically do things that are quite contrary to what BDSM is and what it could be betwixt safe sane and consensual parties. On top of other implications that could be detrimental to the way of business for other good/great Professional Dominas (and Professional submissives for that matter as there is a market) within the realms of KINK.

Once again, I will reiterate for you the reader that may be ‘vanilla’ (aka someone who isn’t in to this ‘style of life’ or so you may not be aware that in fact you are lol) the fact that ‘these people’ are amongst us. They work, talk with, walk with, us. A lot of people I meet greet and session with are ‘normal’. This is not about degrading or chastising anyone for what they ‘think’ they like. However, having a sex positive attitude towards themselves and in this case BDSM/Kink is my concern because this is one of the many things I do.

BUT for those that wonder what a ‘bad day at work’ is like…this is the more milder side of a bad day considerably. As I look up at the ceiling, crack my knuckles and begin this entry. This is about oral servitude. Quotes from so called wanna be do me subs "Oh Domina please let me eat your ass, please let me suck your pussy"... "I want to eat you out" blah blah blah...

I had to put out a fetish community PSA on one of my forums regarding this subject.

1 – Gaining audience with a EDUCATED Professional Domina would garner a level of decorum so NO that's not gonna happen for the safety of ME first and then the safety of you.

2 - Although I'm advertised as a Pro-Domme, I am also acclimated to the Lifestyle and in either case WHY THE HELL WOULD I WANT TO HAVE JUST ANY TOM DICK AND HAIRY BALLS TOUCHING & TASTING MY TREASURES!?? I mean seriously... part of being a Domme is having/exuding responsibility in myself and self respect first and foremost. I do not know where you've been, I do not know where your mouth or fingers have been, I do not know you AND more than half of you wanna be do me subs have piss fucking poor mouth hygiene! Seriously, your mouths aren’t even suitable for maggots to claim residence.

3 - Not every Domme equates 'servitude' with cuming down the throat of a sub/slave. I personally and professionally enjoy the interaction of sessions without that part as that is not on the menu of things I offer.

Something has to remain 'sacred' and that part of intimacy is indeed sacred to me despite some folks thinking that just because it's in the pot of 'fetish' and I'm dealing in a 'pay for play' position that I'm not 'real' because I don't indulge in that part. Some of you MEN-CHILDREN....seriously stop being idiotic animals and really think with your brains (despite most parts of your feeble minds are perhaps majorly dysfunctional).

Yes, it’s not all ass whipping fun and games. As in the style of Life in general, you must draw your lines in the sand as to what you will or wont do. Vanilla, chocolate, corporate, BDSM or anything you embark upon.
As always, I honor what I do and I still do what I do out of the love of my craft and inevitably my growth in this realm and beyond.

Please feel free to email me at audacityof@gmail.com . If you say it/ask it; I will respond honestly and sincerely.

You can also follow my general ‘Clark Kent’ shenanigans via Twitter http://twitter.com/Audacity_Of. Also, you can find me via Face Book under Aura Dynamo if we’re not connected already. If you can't find me, leave your FB name/profile at audacityof@gmail.com so I can find you.

Coming very soon Audacity Of… via YouTube, live video webinars & blogtalkradio.com

Delightful Disclaimer – ‘Domme Diaries' may or may not always be direct adventures of Aura Dynamo, however one can never be too sure. Names, dates and anything else that might prove otherwise have been omitted to protect some of the innocent and a few idiots.

"Go do something Audacious with yourself and enjoy the memories!" - Aura Dynamo

Audacity Of… © 2010

**first & last photo captured by Holly Daggers**

Sissy Fishes In The Sea

2010-03-04T21:41:00.000-08:00

Welcome back welcome back welcome back. Insert ring master music here. I’m your gracious hostess ‘Aura Dynamo’ and I want you to strap yourselves in for yet another Audacious ride through my Domme Diaries.

This double ‘D’ moment is brought to you by Fluuuuuuuuuffff FM* (station coming soon via blog talk radio).LOL seriously, there’s this submissive who’s into fluffing and folding of fine Domme washables as long as he gets to smell some of the soiled goods prior to washing. My little pamper princess sissy ;o).

I had an interesting email pertaining to the realm of Domme sensitivity, sensibility, spice & some things oh so kink inclined ;)
I was recently on the 'seek and ye shall find' mode online and this gent responded to my initial query for session-ers and the certain areas I was interested in incorporating into a session at that particular time. His ‘charming’ note to thee…

The things i 'think' i need are these (rope bondage, spanking, & any other discipline you can give me)... however i don't know what experience you have with them and it may not be enough. If the tribute was for enough time and you had time to do all of these give me some details on how it would be done please mistress... just as you are tired of people who can't take it....i am tired of people who claim to be able to dish it and their ideas are so mundane and basic... last 'mistress' i saw i could have put myself in better self bondage...

Drumrolls, paddles and floggers as this is one of my few cordial responses…

Greetings
As we both sing 'These are a few of my favorite things'. Hmmm...levels of experience I contain... I'm not going to say that I'm the greatest of the great (e.g. Marquis De Sade (not the writer but the Iconic Domme who took on the name as her own...although that's up for popular opinion/debate). But I do require and contain patience as it does take a moment or two to 'learn' the workings of one's mind and body. I'm not into scenarios of major role playing grandeur as I just like to push n pull at the corners of most envelopes hence why Sensual Pain is such the sweetest taboo. There's something to be said about being the correct catalyst for this kind of energy and especially having the correct equipment and play space to execute fully. I do dig a good Dungeon on occasion because of those factors. Also, it's great when the submissive can share in the responsibility of receptive feed back (something most don't do... they just figure I'm submitting so therefore she needs to play me like a piano and that's it. NO! The keys being stroked must emit some sort of energetic 'sound' (literally and figuratively). Equal ebb n flow of all things safe sane and consensual must be shared betwixt the parties involved. I can admit that I had someone in my possession recently and although we had a quaint time, I personally felt it could've been better on my behalf as I tend to play with heavy hands and I couldn't mark this individual which made me a hint conscious in play when I just like to flow. The great thing about 'stop n pop' sessioning to this degree is that one can just go in, become connected for a period of time and then disconnect when done (to a certain degree). The bad thing about it is sometimes chemistry doesn't match up. For me personally, my viewpoint of 'doing what you love' crosses the boundaries of being a 'Pro-Domme' But it makes it oh so much more pleasurable when the chemistry matches along with everything else involved in a session oriented moment.

I would like to hear about your last experience if you'd care to share as I'm always intrigued as to what a 'sub' wished for vs. what you 'thought' servitude should've been despite you providing tribute (if applicable) and perhaps making sure the 'Mistress' was pleased in/out/besides his own desire vs. basic chemistry/connection.

I enjoy sensuality within the joy of mental transference of pain vs. pleasure. I feed off the energy of a submissive’s eyes & body yearns for more as I climb slowly into their skin & sensually stain their eyes with glimpses of slight sadistic tenderness as I hope to nestle nicely into the memory of a submissive within a good if not great session.
Quite frankly, I am not going to go into depth of how I build my sessions because my experience with one who poses a question in the cadence such as yours as the previous paragraphs could tell you much more of what I'm about and how I perform with each individual presented. Those are a few of my favorite things and time and tribute prevailed, I'd engage in those areas of play slowly methodically and surely.

There’s Brains within my Beautiful Brawn and sometimes it works for me and other times I lose out. Que sera sera. My ‘work’ is not always about closing the deal as you’ve read in the previous blog.

There’s times when someone will seek me out with a shopping list of fun things to do. Such is the case of this fetishist who was into a plethora of things ;o)

Thank you for your time. Please allow me to elaborate. I'm a 45yr wm, masochist/fetishist. I've been in the scene for more than 20 yrs. My interests are below:
1) Foot Fetish
2) CBT, especially barefoot ball kicking (Full bore)
3)GS
4) Small Penis Humiliation
5) Chastity
6) Cuckolding
7) Blackmail (real, not role-play)

Lastly, I've recently taken interest in "racial" play. I know that in this day of political correctness, many shy away from this scene. I'd like to explore a scene where a Powerful Black Mistress would take reparations on me. If this is a little too heavy, or just not your scene, we can certainly skip it. (This is more of a cerebral exercise.)

Lofty correspondence from thy fingertips to this potential playmate…

Ah yes, indeed today would've been a perfect day for projectile suffering of sorts due to the shitty (lack of a more eloquent term) day I had dealing with folks who think the very word 'freedom' implies free or the audacity to ask for 'extras' in which I do not have an inkling of desire to offer.

So with that being said, let me get to the portion of your initial query that you would perhaps enjoy in such a painfully sweet way.

1) Foot Fetish - sure as I'm a grand fan of foot love from sensually 'playful' toe shows to full on knocking the wind out of your silly body trampling.

2) CBT, especially barefoot ball kicking (Full bore) - can incorporate this with the fetishism of feet... matter of fact tying your penis to my feet would be a momentous experience.

3) GS - great....there's realms of creativity that can be entertained but it's pretty much the good ole fashioned golden. Which I'm proud to say I take pride in ensuring proper preparation.

4) Small Penis Humiliation – Ha I have one Fine Specimen ‘big bull’ to start you off with will surely put your brain on pause and your penis on shrink as I've experienced first hand such a beauty... Oh I do hope basic roping can accommodate such a useless utensil. If not, ribbons would be used along with the rope to tie to my feet.

5) Chastity - I tend to indulge in this in a more in depth 'relationship' oriented moment as oppose to solely sessioning. As you’ve read in my initial profile, I am not looking for any LTR/sub-slave ownership.

6) Cuckolding - this is an area of interest although certain realms of it is based upon the calm validity of loyalty within your Domme (as it is a symbiotic kind of moment...joined with the realm of chastity....see above).

7) Blackmail (real, not role-play) - I have no comment on that side of the fence as I have not indulged nor does it interest me overall in a session environment or in general.

**racial play** - taking reparations....to me personally is all about the exploitation of your wallet at this point of political correctness as this country was built on the backs (literally) of many of 'my' people and others who are not regarded despite President O being in office. There is no 'cerebral exercising' of my right to beat your ass, bust your balls, rape your skin (yes rape not rake), and be properly compensated for such.

So if we're in accord, lets dance the dance as I'm not into extensive emails at this time. My patience is low and my angst is high.

Regards,
The Perturbed Goddess

In this case, I conducted the preliminary meet and greet with this gent to ensure that he was the kind of session-er who can handle my brand of Domineering. Unfortunately, this douche-tastic man was a waste of time. Big talk and no walk...

Sometimes I win some, sometimes I lose some. It’s the ebb and flow of my pleasurable business hence one can’t be bent too out of shape about it. I know I’m doing my part and either way, free will & choice is what I subscribe in Domme-dom…At least until the boys are under my boot.

As usual, any questions, comments, &/or requests are always welcomed. Please feel free to email me at audacityof@gmail.com . If you say it/ask it; I will respond honestly and sincerely.

You can also follow my general ‘Clark Kent’ shenanigans via Twitter http://twitter.com/Audacity_Of. Also, you can find me via Face Book under Aura Dynamo if we’re not connected already. If you can't find me, leave your FB name/profile at audacityof@gmail.com so I can find you

Coming very soon Audacity Of… via YouTube, live video webinars & blogtalkradio.com

BIG shout out to ‘Ms. Claudia Typhoon’ for not letting your hilarious debacle hinder your successful session that one fine March 2010 day in Domme
Her-story! YES, get it in and get it done is the motto darling ;o)

Delightful Disclaimer – ‘Domme Diaries' may or may not always be direct adventures of Aura Dynamo, however one can never be too sure with her crazy ass. Names, dates and anything else that might prove otherwise have been omitted to protect some of the idiots I mean innocent.

"Go do something Audacious with yourself and enjoy the memories!" - Aura Dynamo

Audacity Of… © 2010

**first two photos captured by Andrew 'Drew' Jones**
**last photo captured by Holly Daggers**

The Domme Diaries - Processing Thoughts

2010-02-16T21:41:00.000-08:00

Good Morning, Good Afternoon Good Evening wherever you may be as you are cordially invited inside the Audacity of Aura. In this latest blog-isode of the ‘Domme Diaries’, we will venture into the lane of thought as I began this part of my personal/professional journey.

Sometimes the word, "Mistress" eludes me as thus the thoughts that are centered on it. Some dames think that it makes them a card carrying member of the 'Uber Bitch Society' and they can be rude, obnoxious and just plain ole cuntie. Some subs/slaves think if you're not mean enough or you don't do complete SM-Kinky play (punishments & the like), you're not a ‘real’ Dominatrix. In general, this includes a lot of the other one dimensional psycho-babble that comes with not stretching outside the proverbial box of what one may think Domination is verses what one may think/feel rather how they’ve defined it for themselves.

D/s - BDSM is like an onion… sooooooo many layers especially with the players.

I’ve also been tinkering in my personal head space regarding the 'Professional' aspect. I'm trying to figure out since when did the sentiment "Do what you love" come with restrictions or resentment of indulging/doing/being a Professional Dom/Domme (or Sub as there's some 'Pro' Subs). Are there those who are solely 'Pro' for the sake of capitalism? Yes, but just like them, there are 'regular' folks who are working at jobs they do not like/love or don't identify with just for the wondrous sake of capitalism.

I personally admire/love most realms of D/s - BDSM. As I still maintain a balanced focus betwixt 'Pro-isms' and semi private Lifestyle. Both require a level of trusting sincere attentiveness and of course a healthy passion for it. I along with quite a few others who I've had the pleasure of meeting/playing/working with) shouldn't be penalized/ostracized/chastised for doing what I genuinely like/love as I am still growing within personally and professionally.

So if I'm taking an intermediate rope bondage class; for me personally it's not solely for sharpening my skills for capital. I have a genuine interest as I enjoy rope play. Will I incorporate it in the 'Pro' realm also? Surely just as the budding writer incorporates all their lessons to make sure they're a better at doing what they like, love and enjoy.

Simple inquiry, Am I a ‘lifestyle-er’? Yes one who's always learning and growing within my chosen lifestyle amongst many other styles of life that I love. Am I also a Professional Domme within the lifestyle? Yes, one who's always learning and growing within my chosen profession that I like & enjoy.

Since the first tall tale of kink-dom, I received some questions regarding how one may get into it or what’s it like to be a Dominatrix. I’ve also received some major kudos regarding how tactful I presented my first submission from my vantage point. There are so many stories and viewpoints to tackle within these scrolling moments via blogging. Overall, I do hope to educate and of course stimulate your senses ;o)

Stay tuned...spankings, whips and nipple clips on the next Domme Diaries ;0)
If you guys n dolls have any questions, comments, &/or requests please feel free to email me at audacityof@gmail.com . If you say it/ask it; I will respond honestly and sincerely.

You can also follow my general ‘Clark Kent’ shenanigans via Twitter http://twitter.com/Audacity_Of

And feel free to find me via FaceBook under Aura Dynamo(If you can't find me, leave your FB at audacityof@gmail.com so I can find you)

Coming soon Audacity Of… via youtube, live video chat webinars & blogtalkradio.com

Delightful Disclaimer – ‘Domme Diaries' may or may not always be direct adventures of Aura Dynamo, however one can never be too sure with her crazy ass. Names, dates and anything else that might prove otherwise have been omitted to protect some of the idiots I mean innocent.

"Go do something Audacious with yourself and enjoy the memories!" - Aura Dynamo

Audacity Of… © 2010

Aura Audaciously Presents The Domme Diaries.

2010-02-02T00:58:00.000-08:00

Good Morning, Good Afternoon Good Evening wherever you may be and welcome to the wonderful circus of the Audacity Of Aura. There are a few friends, fans and perhaps friendnemies who wonder what goes on in the day of Aura’s life. As some of you are aware, I am a splendid flavorful organic opinionated onion. May I be oh so audacious to present one of the few prominent & not too personal features of my wonder-wheel.

Occasionally, I’ll feed you some excerpts of my Domme Dairies via blogs, live video web chat &/or Youtube (content Audaciously coming very soon) where you get to see one of the avenues of occupation as well as for experimental sport. I’ve steadily cultivated my sexual and sensual being for a few years and I’ve eagerly advanced into the realms of Domination. A comedic kinkster & sincere Dommisive (dominant in many external areas, usually a subtle submissive in personal life) at heart, I’ve been beating my own drum as well as quite a few asses or better known as submissives for a while now.

I guess I should take a brief moment to explain the basic bare bones of Domination (D/s (Dominance/submission) or BDSM/kink &/or fetish (Bondage Discipline Sadism Masochism). Yes, it’s sometimes chains whips and clothes pin ball clips, but it’s also very psychological. These are the moments where one is sharing their kink, they’re releasing a few fears and relinquishing a part of their mind that dwells in the everyday moments of their time to the trusting hands of a Dominant Woman or Man as this realm spans gender/sexual orientation. Although it deals with the umbrella of Sex/Sexual Knowledge & Behaviors, there are many avenues. Some/most of you have thoughts that delve into the Race factor. That’s an entire other blog dealing with that subject. Some/most of you have pre-conceived notions of chains whips and men who want pain. Yes, there are those folks who dig that. There are also subtle nuances that are perhaps around/within you. YOU may have even entertained forms of BDSM/kink in your own sensual shenanigans ;o) Something as wonderfully simple as spanking someone on the ass during play (sexual situation), you’ve entered the realm of BDSM. If you’ve lightly put your hand around someone’s neck during sex and just held it firmly or even squeezed just a little and saw the sex driven glint in his or her eyes and realized they became harder or wetter….YES, you’ve participated in some BDSM LOL
Here’s a basic clef note on the subject. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/BDSM I’m not going to claim I have the complete guide but with anything I tend to do, I study well and I’m hands on. Although there are many different methods to how one may govern themselves within D/s, I’ll clear the record right now…. I’m a Professional Dominatrix and as I stated earlier, it is under the umbrella of Sex, Human Sexual Knowledge and Behavior, I DO NOT HAVE SEXUAL RELATIONS (INTERCOURSE ETC…) WITH ANY OF MY CLIENTS. I’m sure I’m going to get quite a few questions after this lol. Feel free to shout me out at audacityof@gmail.com (if you don’t have my personal email or FB addy).

Whew….without further hesitation or explanation; I’d like to begin sharing some of the fantastic antics with those in the know and those who may be utterly surprised ;o) Being a Professional Dominatrix takes not only hands on techniques and an awareness of Sane Safe and Consensual play practices. It takes sales and marketing savvy. Also, being a ‘people person’ with sensitive situations. Most of my daily moments are filled with some wonderful correspondences that eventually lead to meeting greeting and sessioning with some cool individuals. But with something that comes over the cyber pipeline good, there’s always some random fucknugget attempting to test my nerves with their brand foolery. Oye Vey NO job is ever easy breezy folks including this one ;o) So you’ll get to see both sane &/or crazy sides of the spectrum.

Here’s one…..the ‘not so sane’ request that I declined from a gent who was looking to ‘Hang Out’

Hi Miss, how are you today?
I would like to ask you, can you watch me on the webcam how i hanging with a rope on the neck please? I would love if i can see your face on the cam too when i will do that please! Please tell me how much money you will charge for watch me with that about 15 or 20 min?

Hello,
Thank you for your respectful reply. However, I am not a cyber Domme so webcam is not an option for me. Also your level of play is not only extreme but I feel dangerous and I only deal in the safe sane and consensual realities of BDSM - Kink. Extreme Edge play does not excite me in the least bit.

I do suggest that you begin to study and practice better methods of asphyxiation 'play' as this one will one day perhaps garner you an undesired effect (e.g. the original lead singer of INXS...uh he thought it was a good fun sexy idea too and perhaps done it a few times but then that one time... he ended up in deep freeze)

Regards

Hmm let me sift through... (insert drum roll ;o) This correspondence was from a gent who wanted a classic session. Foot worship, humiliation and other classic scenarios (nothing too crazy…I’ll share those stories later...this is a warm up LOL) Sometimes, it’s like a ‘dance’ of sorts because I like to be sure who I’m dealing with as SSC (Safe Sane and Consensual) play is of importance. I don’t accept every tom dick or hair ball that waves money. I have to be 98.9% sure of who I’m dealing with and if they can 1st respect my tolerable/hard limits with the areas of play. Foot worship is something I get in on. The foot has many erogenous zones ;o) So it’s pretty special to me personally considering how much I cater to my damn feet weekly/bi-weekly winter spring summer & fall!

Dearest, i just cannot even express how Your Goddess Feet and Stocking Toes have my heart pounding. How may i possibly have the honor to debase myself under Your beautiful Feet? Your most wishful, most eager, most obedient little foot stool / stinky nylon toe sniffing little sissy / complete and total foot slave?

Hello…
My My My, your enthusiasm is fetching and of course your darling photos (thank you for sending them in advance ;o) I do enjoy leash/puppy play as a little young puppy nipping at my heels long legs and supple ass along with other areas of play.
Speaking of play....bondage (my skills are basic to medium level. It will be restraining yet comfortable as you may be held for sometime). You wouldn't be a proper foot fetishist without being a well trained & restrained footstool. I like smothering faces with my feet and your darling face just may be deserving of my size 10's. Your boyish body appears as if it would look wonderful wearing lace boy-shorts and a corset with silky stockings my dear sissy foot slut.

Right now, I'm fancy over the notion of my toes going down your throat like a good foot slut. Or you washing my feet with your tongue after I've been in flip flops. Don't worry I will make sure I have stinky nylons to adorn your nose and you taste the salt.

We're going to have a foot lovin' time ;0)
Best Regards…

We sessioned and had a hell of a time. He was very receptive of my feet diving down his throat (Aye gaggy! LOL) and a respectful ‘submissive’ overall. He was also very much human and real as he told me some of his life story after the session concluded. There’s the rub folks… it’s not just about getting paid to do random ‘crazy’ things to/with people. It’s about that human connection around all of that. Most of the time, I tend to feel like a therapist of sorts because these people feel safe enough with me to want to talk about other things. Some pertaining to how they cultivated their fetish/fantasy/level of kink. Nonetheless, for me, it’s a sometimes wild, weird, fun & sexy, world I dwell in.

I do hope you enjoyed this first installment of the Domme Diaries as there will be many more to come. If you guys n dolls have any questions, comments, &/or requests please feel free to email me at audacityof@gmail.com. If you say it/ask it; I will respond honestly and sincerely.

You can also follow my general ‘Clark Kent’ shenanigans via Twitter http://twitter.com/Audacity_Of
And feel free to find me via FaceBook under Aura Dynamo(If you can't find me, leave your FB so I can find you)

Coming very soon Audacity Of… via youtube, live video webinars & blogtalkradio.com

Delightful Disclaimer – ‘Domme Diaries' may or may not always be direct adventures of Aura Dynamo, however one can never be too sure with her crazy ass. Names, dates and anything else that might prove otherwise have been omitted to protect some of the idiots I mean innocent.

"Go do something Audacious with yourself and enjoy the memories!" - Aura Dynamo

Audacity Of… © 2010