The Domme Diaries - Processing Thoughts

Good Morning, Good Afternoon Good Evening wherever you may be as you are cordially invited inside the Audacity of Aura. In this latest blog-isode of the ‘Domme Diaries’, we will venture into the lane of thought as I began this part of my personal/professional journey.

Sometimes the word, "Mistress" eludes me as thus the thoughts that are centered on it. Some dames think that it makes them a card carrying member of the 'Uber Bitch Society' and they can be rude, obnoxious and just plain ole cuntie. Some subs/slaves think if you're not mean enough or you don't do complete SM-Kinky play (punishments & the like), you're not a ‘real’ Dominatrix. In general, this includes a lot of the other one dimensional psycho-babble that comes with not stretching outside the proverbial box of what one may think Domination is verses what one may think/feel rather how they’ve defined it for themselves.


D/s - BDSM is like an onion… sooooooo many layers especially with the players.

I’ve also been tinkering in my personal head space regarding the 'Professional' aspect. I'm trying to figure out since when did the sentiment "Do what you love" come with restrictions or resentment of indulging/doing/being a Professional Dom/Domme (or Sub as there's some 'Pro' Subs). Are there those who are solely 'Pro' for the sake of capitalism? Yes, but just like them, there are 'regular' folks who are working at jobs they do not like/love or don't identify with just for the wondrous sake of capitalism.

I personally admire/love most realms of D/s - BDSM. As I still maintain a balanced focus betwixt 'Pro-isms' and semi private Lifestyle. Both require a level of trusting sincere attentiveness and of course a healthy passion for it. I along with quite a few others who I've had the pleasure of meeting/playing/working with) shouldn't be penalized/ostracized/chastised for doing what I genuinely like/love as I am still growing within personally and professionally.

So if I'm taking an intermediate rope bondage class; for me personally it's not solely for sharpening my skills for capital. I have a genuine interest as I enjoy rope play. Will I incorporate it in the 'Pro' realm also? Surely just as the budding writer incorporates all their lessons to make sure they're a better at doing what they like, love and enjoy.

Simple inquiry, Am I a ‘lifestyle-er’? Yes one who's always learning and growing within my chosen lifestyle amongst many other styles of life that I love. Am I also a Professional Domme within the lifestyle? Yes, one who's always learning and growing within my chosen profession that I like & enjoy.

Since the first tall tale of kink-dom, I received some questions regarding how one may get into it or what’s it like to be a Dominatrix. I’ve also received some major kudos regarding how tactful I presented my first submission from my vantage point. There are so many stories and viewpoints to tackle within these scrolling moments via blogging. Overall, I do hope to educate and of course stimulate your senses ;o)

Stay tuned...spankings, whips and nipple clips on the next Domme Diaries ;0)
If you guys n dolls have any questions, comments, &/or requests please feel free to email me at audacityof@gmail.com . If you say it/ask it; I will respond honestly and sincerely.

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Delightful Disclaimer – ‘Domme Diaries' may or may not always be direct adventures of Aura Dynamo, however one can never be too sure with her crazy ass. Names, dates and anything else that might prove otherwise have been omitted to protect some of the idiots I mean innocent.

"Go do something Audacious with yourself and enjoy the memories!" - Aura Dynamo

Audacity Of… © 2010

Aura Audaciously Presents The Domme Diaries.

Good Morning, Good Afternoon Good Evening wherever you may be and welcome to the wonderful circus of the Audacity Of Aura. There are a few friends, fans and perhaps friendnemies who wonder what goes on in the day of Aura’s life. As some of you are aware, I am a splendid flavorful organic opinionated onion. May I be oh so audacious to present one of the few prominent & not too personal features of my wonder-wheel.

Occasionally, I’ll feed you some excerpts of my Domme Dairies via blogs, live video web chat &/or Youtube (content Audaciously coming very soon) where you get to see one of the avenues of occupation as well as for experimental sport. I’ve steadily cultivated my sexual and sensual being for a few years and I’ve eagerly advanced into the realms of Domination. A comedic kinkster & sincere Dommisive (dominant in many external areas, usually a subtle submissive in personal life) at heart, I’ve been beating my own drum as well as quite a few asses or better known as submissives for a while now.

I guess I should take a brief moment to explain the basic bare bones of Domination (D/s (Dominance/submission) or BDSM/kink &/or fetish (Bondage Discipline Sadism Masochism). Yes, it’s sometimes chains whips and clothes pin ball clips, but it’s also very psychological. These are the moments where one is sharing their kink, they’re releasing a few fears and relinquishing a part of their mind that dwells in the everyday moments of their time to the trusting hands of a Dominant Woman or Man as this realm spans gender/sexual orientation. Although it deals with the umbrella of Sex/Sexual Knowledge & Behaviors, there are many avenues. Some/most of you have thoughts that delve into the Race factor. That’s an entire other blog dealing with that subject. Some/most of you have pre-conceived notions of chains whips and men who want pain. Yes, there are those folks who dig that. There are also subtle nuances that are perhaps around/within you. YOU may have even entertained forms of BDSM/kink in your own sensual shenanigans ;o) Something as wonderfully simple as spanking someone on the ass during play (sexual situation), you’ve entered the realm of BDSM. If you’ve lightly put your hand around someone’s neck during sex and just held it firmly or even squeezed just a little and saw the sex driven glint in his or her eyes and realized they became harder or wetter….YES, you’ve participated in some BDSM LOL
Here’s a basic clef note on the subject. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/BDSM I’m not going to claim I have the complete guide but with anything I tend to do, I study well and I’m hands on. Although there are many different methods to how one may govern themselves within D/s, I’ll clear the record right now…. I’m a Professional Dominatrix and as I stated earlier, it is under the umbrella of Sex, Human Sexual Knowledge and Behavior, I DO NOT HAVE SEXUAL RELATIONS (INTERCOURSE ETC…) WITH ANY OF MY CLIENTS. I’m sure I’m going to get quite a few questions after this lol. Feel free to shout me out at audacityof@gmail.com (if you don’t have my personal email or FB addy).

Whew….without further hesitation or explanation; I’d like to begin sharing some of the fantastic antics with those in the know and those who may be utterly surprised ;o) Being a Professional Dominatrix takes not only hands on techniques and an awareness of Sane Safe and Consensual play practices. It takes sales and marketing savvy. Also, being a ‘people person’ with sensitive situations. Most of my daily moments are filled with some wonderful correspondences that eventually lead to meeting greeting and sessioning with some cool individuals. But with something that comes over the cyber pipeline good, there’s always some random fucknugget attempting to test my nerves with their brand foolery. Oye Vey NO job is ever easy breezy folks including this one ;o) So you’ll get to see both sane &/or crazy sides of the spectrum.

Here’s one…..the ‘not so sane’ request that I declined from a gent who was looking to ‘Hang Out’

Hi Miss, how are you today?
I would like to ask you, can you watch me on the webcam how i hanging with a rope on the neck please? I would love if i can see your face on the cam too when i will do that please! Please tell me how much money you will charge for watch me with that about 15 or 20 min?

Hello,
Thank you for your respectful reply. However, I am not a cyber Domme so webcam is not an option for me. Also your level of play is not only extreme but I feel dangerous and I only deal in the safe sane and consensual realities of BDSM - Kink. Extreme Edge play does not excite me in the least bit.

I do suggest that you begin to study and practice better methods of asphyxiation 'play' as this one will one day perhaps garner you an undesired effect (e.g. the original lead singer of INXS...uh he thought it was a good fun sexy idea too and perhaps done it a few times but then that one time... he ended up in deep freeze)

Regards

Hmm let me sift through... (insert drum roll ;o) This correspondence was from a gent who wanted a classic session. Foot worship, humiliation and other classic scenarios (nothing too crazy…I’ll share those stories later...this is a warm up LOL) Sometimes, it’s like a ‘dance’ of sorts because I like to be sure who I’m dealing with as SSC (Safe Sane and Consensual) play is of importance. I don’t accept every tom dick or hair ball that waves money. I have to be 98.9% sure of who I’m dealing with and if they can 1st respect my tolerable/hard limits with the areas of play. Foot worship is something I get in on. The foot has many erogenous zones ;o) So it’s pretty special to me personally considering how much I cater to my damn feet weekly/bi-weekly winter spring summer & fall!


Dearest, i just cannot even express how Your Goddess Feet and Stocking Toes have my heart pounding. How may i possibly have the honor to debase myself under Your beautiful Feet? Your most wishful, most eager, most obedient little foot stool / stinky nylon toe sniffing little sissy / complete and total foot slave?

Hello…
My My My, your enthusiasm is fetching and of course your darling photos (thank you for sending them in advance ;o) I do enjoy leash/puppy play as a little young puppy nipping at my heels long legs and supple ass along with other areas of play.
Speaking of play....bondage (my skills are basic to medium level. It will be restraining yet comfortable as you may be held for sometime). You wouldn't be a proper foot fetishist without being a well trained & restrained footstool. I like smothering faces with my feet and your darling face just may be deserving of my size 10's. Your boyish body appears as if it would look wonderful wearing lace boy-shorts and a corset with silky stockings my dear sissy foot slut.

Right now, I'm fancy over the notion of my toes going down your throat like a good foot slut. Or you washing my feet with your tongue after I've been in flip flops. Don't worry I will make sure I have stinky nylons to adorn your nose and you taste the salt.

We're going to have a foot lovin' time ;0)
Best Regards…

We sessioned and had a hell of a time. He was very receptive of my feet diving down his throat (Aye gaggy! LOL) and a respectful ‘submissive’ overall. He was also very much human and real as he told me some of his life story after the session concluded. There’s the rub folks… it’s not just about getting paid to do random ‘crazy’ things to/with people. It’s about that human connection around all of that. Most of the time, I tend to feel like a therapist of sorts because these people feel safe enough with me to want to talk about other things. Some pertaining to how they cultivated their fetish/fantasy/level of kink. Nonetheless, for me, it’s a sometimes wild, weird, fun & sexy, world I dwell in.

I do hope you enjoyed this first installment of the Domme Diaries as there will be many more to come. If you guys n dolls have any questions, comments, &/or requests please feel free to email me at audacityof@gmail.com. If you say it/ask it; I will respond honestly and sincerely.

You can also follow my general ‘Clark Kent’ shenanigans via Twitter http://twitter.com/Audacity_Of
And feel free to find me via FaceBook under Aura Dynamo(If you can't find me, leave your FB so I can find you)

Coming very soon Audacity Of… via youtube, live video webinars & blogtalkradio.com


Delightful Disclaimer – ‘Domme Diaries' may or may not always be direct adventures of Aura Dynamo, however one can never be too sure with her crazy ass. Names, dates and anything else that might prove otherwise have been omitted to protect some of the idiots I mean innocent.

"Go do something Audacious with yourself and enjoy the memories!" - Aura Dynamo

Audacity Of… © 2010