Unruly Oral Orchestra - occasional adventures in idiot-ville

Gracious Goddess Thanks for tuning in for another round of Domme Diaries. It’s gritty kitty time! My past few blogs have been considerably ‘polite’. However, I’ve been having a perplexing time at ‘work’ lately. My ‘job’ is not easy overall as there are different attitudes to yield and wield my mental cocks-woman-ship around. Betwixt the fucknuggets who think they can approach me as if there aren’t any levels of decorum online as well as offline. I dare someone to walk up to me and ask me some of the shit I get the dis-pleasure of having to sift through via email & telephone. I swear that person better hope I am in a tolerable comedic mood and we know each other at that point because I’m liable to cordially spazz out and punch someone in the throat…I digress… Considering that my advertisements are fairly thorough as to what I will tolerate vs. what’s NOT on the menu of things to do. I along with a few other Dominas have expressed our disdain for this particular subject. The fucknuggets who want to provide ‘Oral Servitude’. Known as the oral slave or in crass vanilla terms…want to eat me out. AUGH...this situation occurs periodically when I get a string of applicants who proclaim they want to engage in Domination, but think that what they saw on some random fucking porn website is ‘real’ domination.


I don’t knock other Dommes for doing whatever it is they want to do with their sessions (pro and/or lifestyle) that have come up in the ranks of their Domme-dom. HOWEVER, I do knock the whores with ropes and whips who aren’t educated themselves in what Domination is vs. what it isn’t and just basically do things that are quite contrary to what BDSM is and what it could be betwixt safe sane and consensual parties. On top of other implications that could be detrimental to the way of business for other good/great Professional Dominas (and Professional submissives for that matter as there is a market) within the realms of KINK.

Once again, I will reiterate for you the reader that may be ‘vanilla’ (aka someone who isn’t in to this ‘style of life’ or so you may not be aware that in fact you are lol) the fact that ‘these people’ are amongst us. They work, talk with, walk with, us. A lot of people I meet greet and session with are ‘normal’. This is not about degrading or chastising anyone for what they ‘think’ they like. However, having a sex positive attitude towards themselves and in this case BDSM/Kink is my concern because this is one of the many things I do.

BUT for those that wonder what a ‘bad day at work’ is like…this is the more milder side of a bad day considerably. As I look up at the ceiling, crack my knuckles and begin this entry. This is about oral servitude. Quotes from so called wanna be do me subs "Oh Domina please let me eat your ass, please let me suck your pussy"... "I want to eat you out" blah blah blah...

I had to put out a fetish community PSA on one of my forums regarding this subject.

1 – Gaining audience with a EDUCATED Professional Domina would garner a level of decorum so NO that's not gonna happen for the safety of ME first and then the safety of you.

2 - Although I'm advertised as a Pro-Domme, I am also acclimated to the Lifestyle and in either case WHY THE HELL WOULD I WANT TO HAVE JUST ANY TOM DICK AND HAIRY BALLS TOUCHING & TASTING MY TREASURES!?? I mean seriously... part of being a Domme is having/exuding responsibility in myself and self respect first and foremost. I do not know where you've been, I do not know where your mouth or fingers have been, I do not know you AND more than half of you wanna be do me subs have piss fucking poor mouth hygiene! Seriously, your mouths aren’t even suitable for maggots to claim residence.

3 - Not every Domme equates 'servitude' with cuming down the throat of a sub/slave. I personally and professionally enjoy the interaction of sessions without that part as that is not on the menu of things I offer.

Something has to remain 'sacred' and that part of intimacy is indeed sacred to me despite some folks thinking that just because it's in the pot of 'fetish' and I'm dealing in a 'pay for play' position that I'm not 'real' because I don't indulge in that part. Some of you MEN-CHILDREN....seriously stop being idiotic animals and really think with your brains (despite most parts of your feeble minds are perhaps majorly dysfunctional).

Yes, it’s not all ass whipping fun and games. As in the style of Life in general, you must draw your lines in the sand as to what you will or wont do. Vanilla, chocolate, corporate, BDSM or anything you embark upon.
As always, I honor what I do and I still do what I do out of the love of my craft and inevitably my growth in this realm and beyond.

Please feel free to email me at audacityof@gmail.com . If you say it/ask it; I will respond honestly and sincerely.

You can also follow my general ‘Clark Kent’ shenanigans via Twitter http://twitter.com/Audacity_Of. Also, you can find me via Face Book under Aura Dynamo if we’re not connected already. If you can't find me, leave your FB name/profile at audacityof@gmail.com so I can find you.

Coming very soon Audacity Of… via YouTube, live video webinars & blogtalkradio.com

Delightful Disclaimer – ‘Domme Diaries' may or may not always be direct adventures of Aura Dynamo, however one can never be too sure. Names, dates and anything else that might prove otherwise have been omitted to protect some of the innocent and a few idiots.

"Go do something Audacious with yourself and enjoy the memories!" - Aura Dynamo

Audacity Of… © 2010

**first & last photo captured by Holly Daggers**

Sissy Fishes In The Sea

Welcome back welcome back welcome back. Insert ring master music here. I’m your gracious hostess ‘Aura Dynamo’ and I want you to strap yourselves in for yet another Audacious ride through my Domme Diaries.

This double ‘D’ moment is brought to you by Fluuuuuuuuuffff FM* (station coming soon via blog talk radio).LOL seriously, there’s this submissive who’s into fluffing and folding of fine Domme washables as long as he gets to smell some of the soiled goods prior to washing. My little pamper princess sissy ;o).

I had an interesting email pertaining to the realm of Domme sensitivity, sensibility, spice & some things oh so kink inclined ;)
I was recently on the 'seek and ye shall find' mode online and this gent responded to my initial query for session-ers and the certain areas I was interested in incorporating into a session at that particular time. His ‘charming’ note to thee…

The things i 'think' i need are these (rope bondage, spanking, & any other discipline you can give me)... however i don't know what experience you have with them and it may not be enough. If the tribute was for enough time and you had time to do all of these give me some details on how it would be done please mistress... just as you are tired of people who can't take it....i am tired of people who claim to be able to dish it and their ideas are so mundane and basic... last 'mistress' i saw i could have put myself in better self bondage...

Drumrolls, paddles and floggers as this is one of my few cordial responses…

Greetings
As we both sing 'These are a few of my favorite things'. Hmmm...levels of experience I contain... I'm not going to say that I'm the greatest of the great (e.g. Marquis De Sade (not the writer but the Iconic Domme who took on the name as her own...although that's up for popular opinion/debate). But I do require and contain patience as it does take a moment or two to 'learn' the workings of one's mind and body. I'm not into scenarios of major role playing grandeur as I just like to push n pull at the corners of most envelopes hence why Sensual Pain is such the sweetest taboo. There's something to be said about being the correct catalyst for this kind of energy and especially having the correct equipment and play space to execute fully. I do dig a good Dungeon on occasion because of those factors. Also, it's great when the submissive can share in the responsibility of receptive feed back (something most don't do... they just figure I'm submitting so therefore she needs to play me like a piano and that's it. NO! The keys being stroked must emit some sort of energetic 'sound' (literally and figuratively). Equal ebb n flow of all things safe sane and consensual must be shared betwixt the parties involved. I can admit that I had someone in my possession recently and although we had a quaint time, I personally felt it could've been better on my behalf as I tend to play with heavy hands and I couldn't mark this individual which made me a hint conscious in play when I just like to flow. The great thing about 'stop n pop' sessioning to this degree is that one can just go in, become connected for a period of time and then disconnect when done (to a certain degree). The bad thing about it is sometimes chemistry doesn't match up. For me personally, my viewpoint of 'doing what you love' crosses the boundaries of being a 'Pro-Domme' But it makes it oh so much more pleasurable when the chemistry matches along with everything else involved in a session oriented moment.

I would like to hear about your last experience if you'd care to share as I'm always intrigued as to what a 'sub' wished for vs. what you 'thought' servitude should've been despite you providing tribute (if applicable) and perhaps making sure the 'Mistress' was pleased in/out/besides his own desire vs. basic chemistry/connection.

I enjoy sensuality within the joy of mental transference of pain vs. pleasure. I feed off the energy of a submissive’s eyes & body yearns for more as I climb slowly into their skin & sensually stain their eyes with glimpses of slight sadistic tenderness as I hope to nestle nicely into the memory of a submissive within a good if not great session.
Quite frankly, I am not going to go into depth of how I build my sessions because my experience with one who poses a question in the cadence such as yours as the previous paragraphs could tell you much more of what I'm about and how I perform with each individual presented. Those are a few of my favorite things and time and tribute prevailed, I'd engage in those areas of play slowly methodically and surely.

There’s Brains within my Beautiful Brawn and sometimes it works for me and other times I lose out. Que sera sera. My ‘work’ is not always about closing the deal as you’ve read in the previous blog.

There’s times when someone will seek me out with a shopping list of fun things to do. Such is the case of this fetishist who was into a plethora of things ;o)

Thank you for your time. Please allow me to elaborate. I'm a 45yr wm, masochist/fetishist. I've been in the scene for more than 20 yrs. My interests are below:
1) Foot Fetish
2) CBT, especially barefoot ball kicking (Full bore)
3)GS
4) Small Penis Humiliation
5) Chastity
6) Cuckolding
7) Blackmail (real, not role-play)

Lastly, I've recently taken interest in "racial" play. I know that in this day of political correctness, many shy away from this scene. I'd like to explore a scene where a Powerful Black Mistress would take reparations on me. If this is a little too heavy, or just not your scene, we can certainly skip it. (This is more of a cerebral exercise.)


Lofty correspondence from thy fingertips to this potential playmate…

Ah yes, indeed today would've been a perfect day for projectile suffering of sorts due to the shitty (lack of a more eloquent term) day I had dealing with folks who think the very word 'freedom' implies free or the audacity to ask for 'extras' in which I do not have an inkling of desire to offer.

So with that being said, let me get to the portion of your initial query that you would perhaps enjoy in such a painfully sweet way.

1) Foot Fetish - sure as I'm a grand fan of foot love from sensually 'playful' toe shows to full on knocking the wind out of your silly body trampling.

2) CBT, especially barefoot ball kicking (Full bore) - can incorporate this with the fetishism of feet... matter of fact tying your penis to my feet would be a momentous experience.

3) GS - great....there's realms of creativity that can be entertained but it's pretty much the good ole fashioned golden. Which I'm proud to say I take pride in ensuring proper preparation.

4) Small Penis Humiliation – Ha I have one Fine Specimen ‘big bull’ to start you off with will surely put your brain on pause and your penis on shrink as I've experienced first hand such a beauty... Oh I do hope basic roping can accommodate such a useless utensil. If not, ribbons would be used along with the rope to tie to my feet.

5) Chastity - I tend to indulge in this in a more in depth 'relationship' oriented moment as oppose to solely sessioning. As you’ve read in my initial profile, I am not looking for any LTR/sub-slave ownership.

6) Cuckolding - this is an area of interest although certain realms of it is based upon the calm validity of loyalty within your Domme (as it is a symbiotic kind of moment...joined with the realm of chastity....see above).

7) Blackmail (real, not role-play) - I have no comment on that side of the fence as I have not indulged nor does it interest me overall in a session environment or in general.

**racial play** - taking reparations....to me personally is all about the exploitation of your wallet at this point of political correctness as this country was built on the backs (literally) of many of 'my' people and others who are not regarded despite President O being in office. There is no 'cerebral exercising' of my right to beat your ass, bust your balls, rape your skin (yes rape not rake), and be properly compensated for such.

So if we're in accord, lets dance the dance as I'm not into extensive emails at this time. My patience is low and my angst is high.

Regards,
The Perturbed Goddess

In this case, I conducted the preliminary meet and greet with this gent to ensure that he was the kind of session-er who can handle my brand of Domineering. Unfortunately, this douche-tastic man was a waste of time. Big talk and no walk...

Sometimes I win some, sometimes I lose some. It’s the ebb and flow of my pleasurable business hence one can’t be bent too out of shape about it. I know I’m doing my part and either way, free will & choice is what I subscribe in Domme-dom…At least until the boys are under my boot.


As usual, any questions, comments, &/or requests are always welcomed. Please feel free to email me at audacityof@gmail.com . If you say it/ask it; I will respond honestly and sincerely.

You can also follow my general ‘Clark Kent’ shenanigans via Twitter http://twitter.com/Audacity_Of. Also, you can find me via Face Book under Aura Dynamo if we’re not connected already. If you can't find me, leave your FB name/profile at audacityof@gmail.com so I can find you

Coming very soon Audacity Of… via YouTube, live video webinars & blogtalkradio.com

BIG shout out to ‘Ms. Claudia Typhoon’ for not letting your hilarious debacle hinder your successful session that one fine March 2010 day in Domme
Her-story! YES, get it in and get it done is the motto darling ;o)

Delightful Disclaimer – ‘Domme Diaries' may or may not always be direct adventures of Aura Dynamo, however one can never be too sure with her crazy ass. Names, dates and anything else that might prove otherwise have been omitted to protect some of the idiots I mean innocent.

"Go do something Audacious with yourself and enjoy the memories!" - Aura Dynamo

Audacity Of… © 2010

**first two photos captured by Andrew 'Drew' Jones**
**last photo captured by Holly Daggers**

The Domme Diaries - Processing Thoughts

Good Morning, Good Afternoon Good Evening wherever you may be as you are cordially invited inside the Audacity of Aura. In this latest blog-isode of the ‘Domme Diaries’, we will venture into the lane of thought as I began this part of my personal/professional journey.

Sometimes the word, "Mistress" eludes me as thus the thoughts that are centered on it. Some dames think that it makes them a card carrying member of the 'Uber Bitch Society' and they can be rude, obnoxious and just plain ole cuntie. Some subs/slaves think if you're not mean enough or you don't do complete SM-Kinky play (punishments & the like), you're not a ‘real’ Dominatrix. In general, this includes a lot of the other one dimensional psycho-babble that comes with not stretching outside the proverbial box of what one may think Domination is verses what one may think/feel rather how they’ve defined it for themselves.


D/s - BDSM is like an onion… sooooooo many layers especially with the players.

I’ve also been tinkering in my personal head space regarding the 'Professional' aspect. I'm trying to figure out since when did the sentiment "Do what you love" come with restrictions or resentment of indulging/doing/being a Professional Dom/Domme (or Sub as there's some 'Pro' Subs). Are there those who are solely 'Pro' for the sake of capitalism? Yes, but just like them, there are 'regular' folks who are working at jobs they do not like/love or don't identify with just for the wondrous sake of capitalism.

I personally admire/love most realms of D/s - BDSM. As I still maintain a balanced focus betwixt 'Pro-isms' and semi private Lifestyle. Both require a level of trusting sincere attentiveness and of course a healthy passion for it. I along with quite a few others who I've had the pleasure of meeting/playing/working with) shouldn't be penalized/ostracized/chastised for doing what I genuinely like/love as I am still growing within personally and professionally.

So if I'm taking an intermediate rope bondage class; for me personally it's not solely for sharpening my skills for capital. I have a genuine interest as I enjoy rope play. Will I incorporate it in the 'Pro' realm also? Surely just as the budding writer incorporates all their lessons to make sure they're a better at doing what they like, love and enjoy.

Simple inquiry, Am I a ‘lifestyle-er’? Yes one who's always learning and growing within my chosen lifestyle amongst many other styles of life that I love. Am I also a Professional Domme within the lifestyle? Yes, one who's always learning and growing within my chosen profession that I like & enjoy.

Since the first tall tale of kink-dom, I received some questions regarding how one may get into it or what’s it like to be a Dominatrix. I’ve also received some major kudos regarding how tactful I presented my first submission from my vantage point. There are so many stories and viewpoints to tackle within these scrolling moments via blogging. Overall, I do hope to educate and of course stimulate your senses ;o)

Stay tuned...spankings, whips and nipple clips on the next Domme Diaries ;0)
If you guys n dolls have any questions, comments, &/or requests please feel free to email me at audacityof@gmail.com . If you say it/ask it; I will respond honestly and sincerely.

You can also follow my general ‘Clark Kent’ shenanigans via Twitter http://twitter.com/Audacity_Of

And feel free to find me via FaceBook under Aura Dynamo(If you can't find me, leave your FB at audacityof@gmail.com so I can find you)

Coming soon Audacity Of… via youtube, live video chat webinars & blogtalkradio.com

Delightful Disclaimer – ‘Domme Diaries' may or may not always be direct adventures of Aura Dynamo, however one can never be too sure with her crazy ass. Names, dates and anything else that might prove otherwise have been omitted to protect some of the idiots I mean innocent.

"Go do something Audacious with yourself and enjoy the memories!" - Aura Dynamo

Audacity Of… © 2010

Aura Audaciously Presents The Domme Diaries.

Good Morning, Good Afternoon Good Evening wherever you may be and welcome to the wonderful circus of the Audacity Of Aura. There are a few friends, fans and perhaps friendnemies who wonder what goes on in the day of Aura’s life. As some of you are aware, I am a splendid flavorful organic opinionated onion. May I be oh so audacious to present one of the few prominent & not too personal features of my wonder-wheel.

Occasionally, I’ll feed you some excerpts of my Domme Dairies via blogs, live video web chat &/or Youtube (content Audaciously coming very soon) where you get to see one of the avenues of occupation as well as for experimental sport. I’ve steadily cultivated my sexual and sensual being for a few years and I’ve eagerly advanced into the realms of Domination. A comedic kinkster & sincere Dommisive (dominant in many external areas, usually a subtle submissive in personal life) at heart, I’ve been beating my own drum as well as quite a few asses or better known as submissives for a while now.

I guess I should take a brief moment to explain the basic bare bones of Domination (D/s (Dominance/submission) or BDSM/kink &/or fetish (Bondage Discipline Sadism Masochism). Yes, it’s sometimes chains whips and clothes pin ball clips, but it’s also very psychological. These are the moments where one is sharing their kink, they’re releasing a few fears and relinquishing a part of their mind that dwells in the everyday moments of their time to the trusting hands of a Dominant Woman or Man as this realm spans gender/sexual orientation. Although it deals with the umbrella of Sex/Sexual Knowledge & Behaviors, there are many avenues. Some/most of you have thoughts that delve into the Race factor. That’s an entire other blog dealing with that subject. Some/most of you have pre-conceived notions of chains whips and men who want pain. Yes, there are those folks who dig that. There are also subtle nuances that are perhaps around/within you. YOU may have even entertained forms of BDSM/kink in your own sensual shenanigans ;o) Something as wonderfully simple as spanking someone on the ass during play (sexual situation), you’ve entered the realm of BDSM. If you’ve lightly put your hand around someone’s neck during sex and just held it firmly or even squeezed just a little and saw the sex driven glint in his or her eyes and realized they became harder or wetter….YES, you’ve participated in some BDSM LOL
Here’s a basic clef note on the subject. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/BDSM I’m not going to claim I have the complete guide but with anything I tend to do, I study well and I’m hands on. Although there are many different methods to how one may govern themselves within D/s, I’ll clear the record right now…. I’m a Professional Dominatrix and as I stated earlier, it is under the umbrella of Sex, Human Sexual Knowledge and Behavior, I DO NOT HAVE SEXUAL RELATIONS (INTERCOURSE ETC…) WITH ANY OF MY CLIENTS. I’m sure I’m going to get quite a few questions after this lol. Feel free to shout me out at audacityof@gmail.com (if you don’t have my personal email or FB addy).

Whew….without further hesitation or explanation; I’d like to begin sharing some of the fantastic antics with those in the know and those who may be utterly surprised ;o) Being a Professional Dominatrix takes not only hands on techniques and an awareness of Sane Safe and Consensual play practices. It takes sales and marketing savvy. Also, being a ‘people person’ with sensitive situations. Most of my daily moments are filled with some wonderful correspondences that eventually lead to meeting greeting and sessioning with some cool individuals. But with something that comes over the cyber pipeline good, there’s always some random fucknugget attempting to test my nerves with their brand foolery. Oye Vey NO job is ever easy breezy folks including this one ;o) So you’ll get to see both sane &/or crazy sides of the spectrum.

Here’s one…..the ‘not so sane’ request that I declined from a gent who was looking to ‘Hang Out’

Hi Miss, how are you today?
I would like to ask you, can you watch me on the webcam how i hanging with a rope on the neck please? I would love if i can see your face on the cam too when i will do that please! Please tell me how much money you will charge for watch me with that about 15 or 20 min?

Hello,
Thank you for your respectful reply. However, I am not a cyber Domme so webcam is not an option for me. Also your level of play is not only extreme but I feel dangerous and I only deal in the safe sane and consensual realities of BDSM - Kink. Extreme Edge play does not excite me in the least bit.

I do suggest that you begin to study and practice better methods of asphyxiation 'play' as this one will one day perhaps garner you an undesired effect (e.g. the original lead singer of INXS...uh he thought it was a good fun sexy idea too and perhaps done it a few times but then that one time... he ended up in deep freeze)

Regards

Hmm let me sift through... (insert drum roll ;o) This correspondence was from a gent who wanted a classic session. Foot worship, humiliation and other classic scenarios (nothing too crazy…I’ll share those stories later...this is a warm up LOL) Sometimes, it’s like a ‘dance’ of sorts because I like to be sure who I’m dealing with as SSC (Safe Sane and Consensual) play is of importance. I don’t accept every tom dick or hair ball that waves money. I have to be 98.9% sure of who I’m dealing with and if they can 1st respect my tolerable/hard limits with the areas of play. Foot worship is something I get in on. The foot has many erogenous zones ;o) So it’s pretty special to me personally considering how much I cater to my damn feet weekly/bi-weekly winter spring summer & fall!


Dearest, i just cannot even express how Your Goddess Feet and Stocking Toes have my heart pounding. How may i possibly have the honor to debase myself under Your beautiful Feet? Your most wishful, most eager, most obedient little foot stool / stinky nylon toe sniffing little sissy / complete and total foot slave?

Hello…
My My My, your enthusiasm is fetching and of course your darling photos (thank you for sending them in advance ;o) I do enjoy leash/puppy play as a little young puppy nipping at my heels long legs and supple ass along with other areas of play.
Speaking of play....bondage (my skills are basic to medium level. It will be restraining yet comfortable as you may be held for sometime). You wouldn't be a proper foot fetishist without being a well trained & restrained footstool. I like smothering faces with my feet and your darling face just may be deserving of my size 10's. Your boyish body appears as if it would look wonderful wearing lace boy-shorts and a corset with silky stockings my dear sissy foot slut.

Right now, I'm fancy over the notion of my toes going down your throat like a good foot slut. Or you washing my feet with your tongue after I've been in flip flops. Don't worry I will make sure I have stinky nylons to adorn your nose and you taste the salt.

We're going to have a foot lovin' time ;0)
Best Regards…

We sessioned and had a hell of a time. He was very receptive of my feet diving down his throat (Aye gaggy! LOL) and a respectful ‘submissive’ overall. He was also very much human and real as he told me some of his life story after the session concluded. There’s the rub folks… it’s not just about getting paid to do random ‘crazy’ things to/with people. It’s about that human connection around all of that. Most of the time, I tend to feel like a therapist of sorts because these people feel safe enough with me to want to talk about other things. Some pertaining to how they cultivated their fetish/fantasy/level of kink. Nonetheless, for me, it’s a sometimes wild, weird, fun & sexy, world I dwell in.

I do hope you enjoyed this first installment of the Domme Diaries as there will be many more to come. If you guys n dolls have any questions, comments, &/or requests please feel free to email me at audacityof@gmail.com. If you say it/ask it; I will respond honestly and sincerely.

You can also follow my general ‘Clark Kent’ shenanigans via Twitter http://twitter.com/Audacity_Of
And feel free to find me via FaceBook under Aura Dynamo(If you can't find me, leave your FB so I can find you)

Coming very soon Audacity Of… via youtube, live video webinars & blogtalkradio.com


Delightful Disclaimer – ‘Domme Diaries' may or may not always be direct adventures of Aura Dynamo, however one can never be too sure with her crazy ass. Names, dates and anything else that might prove otherwise have been omitted to protect some of the idiots I mean innocent.

"Go do something Audacious with yourself and enjoy the memories!" - Aura Dynamo

Audacity Of… © 2010