Wolf in Shy Sheep's Clothing...

Oh 'shy sheep's' in wolf's clothing in this particular entry. I swear if there's one thing I do not dig in particular in the Professional circuit it's the 'gents' who attempt to Top from the bottom. That is an expression associated with folks who solely seek their own gratification through means of 'submitting' when they're really bottoms who don't have etiquette or concept of Dominance.

Some of you may be asking, "What's the difference. Whelp your 'average' (I say that loosely) bottom or kinkster has a theme/fantasy in mind and quite often it's particular in nature. They like/lust/love what they enjoy without all the other features/learning within Kink D/s BDSM attributes. Unlike the submissive/slave who feels/knows that their gratification is granted as rewards for their service. The submissive relinquishes control completely and entrusts the Dom/Domme knows best how to push personal envelopes while enjoying the liberties of being in careful hands so to speak.

In a 'pay for play' stance, some folks sometimes feel "I should get what I pay for" Sure...however, the delicate balance within Professional D/s, the general rules STILL APPLY regarding ensuring that BOTH the Dom/Domme and the bottom/sub are equally satisfied in accordance to the session they've agreed upon. As there's the saying, without a responsive bottom/sub/slave, the Dom/Domme somewhat ceases to exist in the two way street of D/s relations. For the Pro Domme who truly enjoys sessioning, it is always about maintaining that balance despite the notion of being paid. It can get tricky hence why I often say I professionally purvey Kink/fantasies within the Art of Domination.

If you remember a few blogs back, I expressed a dislike for play scenes that are too scripted. Here's another 'fashionable play write' who wished to session with me...


Dear Mistress,
Your ad did not contain your name,
I am a leather fetishist who loves to worship beautiful women such as yourself wearing leather.
Enclosed are my session notes for your consideration. If you consent to allow me to submit to you
let me know your tribute for an hour and where you are located.
Respectfully,

Subject: session notes
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i am a fetishist and not a masochist and do not enjoy pain at all.

WOULD YOU WEAR A Leather OUTFIT and black
leather thigh high boots If you have long leather gloves it would be nice
items needed-collar,leash and a light flogger
READ THIS ABOUT me PLEASE:

WHEN i VISIT A NEW MISTRESS FOR A FIRST
SESSION i am little NERVOUS and FRIGHTENED.
i might even be shaky.
To help me feel more comfortable could YOU allow me a HUG.(very important)
This usually puts me at ease after a short
time. The way YOU will see me has
nothing to do with YOU.
i am UNCOMFORTABLE with my submissive side and it causes the nervousness.
Don't get the wrong idea but the HUG will really help if YOU
are willing. i hope YOU are compassionate enough to understand.
After the HUG it will not take me long to
calm down and get back to myself.
Once we begin our time together i will be fine.
A face slap or two would be helpful
It is IMPORTANT that we begin our session this way.
It should only take 3 minutes.Leaving you 57 minutes to take possession of me.
Enter the room with a stern look and immediately place a COLLAR around my
neck and pull on it and tell me as long as i wear this collar you own me.
Attach the leash and Pull real HARD on the
leash and put my face in the cup
of YOUR hand.
If you wish several face slaps will add to the session
Make me look into YOUR eyes and tell me that
i am now YOUR slave and i must obey what ever
YOU say. Ask me if i understand. Then force me on the floor and place your
booted foot on my cheek and repeat what YOU just told me.
If you like YOU can press down firmly with YOUR heel and pull
real HARD on the leash and then kick me several times.
Then order me to clean YOUR leather boots.
i am certain with YOUR experience YOU will
know what to do. This whole thing should take about 3 minutes
plus the time YOU need for me to clean YOUR boots to YOUR satisfaction.
i will now be soooooo submissive and ready for YOU to enjoy yourself.
By starting EXACTLY this way i will be the most submissive slave YOU have
ever encountered.
[DO NOT TOUCH MY NIPPLES]
THINGS I LIKE But can be offered at Your discretion or NOT be off
To be hugged
To kiss Your butt
To kiss any part of Your body
The touch of leather
For you to touch my face
Rub my stomach
Rub my butt in circles
To be told i am a good slave
To be told i have pleased you
To have the leash pulled real hard or just the collar
To be kicked in the butt with your knee
Any contact with Your boots
To be stroked behind the ear
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I hope it will not take you so long to respond
Sincerely
'wolf'


Whoa is me to fantastic idiots in the kinky village.
this guy is "UNCOMFORTABLE with [his] submissive side." Oh come now...how many Mistresses has he seen with this contradictory cut and paste self serving doctrine? Along with the fact that it says in plain print on my ads, I'm a Sensual Sadist! Although I'm very capable of playing in the 'Softer Side of Kink', part of sadism for me is to administer of pain pleasurably (levels vary). I could've easily told him to howl n gargle on some silicon nuts with this fantastically fanatical bullshit. BUT that would not be the Audacious Aura that you the reader and me the writer have grown to admire and adore within my Domme-dom.


In customary Aura-dacity style and grace, my reply went as follows...

'wolf', is it?
Apparently in topping from the bottom in 'shy sheep's clothing'.

Although this is D/s in the professional sense, PLEASE let me stress to you I am a Lifestyle Domme who purveys levels of Kink D/s Artfully as I am indeed naturally a Sensual Sadist. I was brought into the BDSM fold with some of the sensibilities of the 'Old Guard' while growing with 'new eyes' in the present. Even in fulfilling themed requests, I still maintain the balance of control from one who wishes to submit.

My ad didn't contain my name because I enjoy speaking with people vocally (with adherence to my enjoyment of time and genre of conversation). But emails are just as effective due to my penchant for writing.

I'm elated that you are a leather fetishist who loves to worship beautiful Women wearing leather. However, Your session notes are entirely TOO SCRIPTED which comes across as topping from the bottom. I have a GRAVE DISDAIN for such behavior.

Your "session notes" means you are solely interested in filling faces into the 'role' as oppose to someone who can enlighten and delight herself through/with your 'theme'. What is a Dominant without full knowledge and control of herself and her pleasures first sensually and/or corporal inclined? She's a leaf blowing in the wind of others intent and that's NOT me. I'm fair but I'm FIRM in mind body and Spirit as I'm keenly aware of who and how I am.

Although this is a 'paid' notion of D/s, I'm the one who still dictates and controls the particulars within the theme and one who bottoms, or submits entrusts that he or she will walk away well cared for as I will walk away with more knowledge and understanding along with my appetite fulfilled. I appreciate you feeling compelled to reach out to me. However, this aspect of your "session notes" is not appreciated quite frankly. I understand that you like what you like within the limits and scope of what you're seeking. However, you must understand that a Woman of my stature is NOT a cookie cutter Domme.

I will have to decline your request to gain further audience with me at this present time.
I do wish you the best of luck on your continued search.

Best,

I probably could've attempted to 'flip the script'. However, the 'client dictate' is TOO SCRIPTED. I have no qualms with hugging someone even in a D/s realm if I so choose to. However, to TELL me that one would become most submissive by following "EXACT" steps is ludicrous and quite frankly disrespectful to those such as myself who have a keen sense of who and how we are within the catalyst of D/s. What he failed to realize about himself is the 'simple' fact that we (Professional and/or 'private' Dom/Dommes and/or submissives who respect the 'rules within the mental sensibilities of this craft) are exploratory THINKING and FEELING individuals within the collective BDSM community.


I'm actually Twitter friendly although I may be streaming random thoughts in my own altered states of my reality. Feel free to find me there http://twitter.com/Audacity_Of where random Audaciousness continues. Also, you can find me via Face Book under Aura Dynamo if we’re not connected already. Don't forget to send a message when you make that 'friend request'. At least I'll know where ya found me. If you can't find me, leave your FB name/profile at audacityof@gmail.com so I can find you.

Delightful Disclaimer – ‘The Domme Diaries' may or may not always be direct adventures of Aura Dynamo. Names, dates and anything else that might prove otherwise have been omitted to protect some of the innocent and a few idiots.



"Go do something Audacious with yourself and enjoy the memories!" - Aura Dynamo


Audacity Of… © 2010

**3rd & 4th photos captured by Holly Daggers for Wet Circuit LIC**

Forward Movement - Learning Curves

Top,middle, or the bottom of the day to you wonderful voyagers of the kinky tundra and beyond. As usual customary thanks for all those who've come into my sphere of being, doing, learning and growing. Also thank you to the new point and clickers from here to London and Sweden. Yes y'all, I received a warm shout out from those two places on the map.

It is officially year 3 of this independently outwardly Human sense-ploration of the kinky kind for me and must say it has been an uphill movement like the little yodeling cliff hanger dude from the price is right . Minus the falling off the mountain though lol. As my personal ambition is in full throttle and goals shift with new points of view; I must say I'm humbly grateful to be able to share these moments with you. To express these dynamics of D/s, kink, and BDSM as a Human experience is a gift.

Speaking of gifts, the gift of learning is always present. I've recently sought out some Domme-ly guidance from peers who are crafts Women and men within the scope of BDSM and I gotta tell ya, although I know quite a bit, I'm ALWAYS learning something new whether it's a skill (e.g. Proper Needle Play 102-103 as Artistic Expression)










Or becoming more acclimated within the different sensibilities of the Lifestyle scene. Although I'm not one to frequent any one place or space at any given time, I realize that establishing and maintaining a sincere presence within the community and the Art that I represent is imperative.


There are also the submissive/slave dynamic that I'm constantly learning about on both sides of the spectrum. Being a Dommissive (Dominant in many areas of my life and profession; submissive with my chosen 'Dom'/intimate life).











It's important to me since I personally identify myself and all that I do within the lifestyle (not just the busy business bottoms/kinksters)to convey that we are living breathing THINKING & feeling Spirits. Although my Diaries consist of tails of triumph and few fellow follies, There is much respect given and received from both Dom/Domme and submissives.


The Great Lifestyle Doms/Dommes who some happen to be on the Professional scenes aren't the ones who have the most clients or the ones who have a massive stable of subs/slaves. They aren't the ones who have all the equipment and Fetish Fashions and show up at all the play parties. The Great lifestyle Doms/Dommes where some of them are on the Professional sides are the ones who can RELATE in and outside of the realms of kink D/s BDSM within a HUMAN scope of thinking being and doing. When I started this blog it was with the notion of inviting a few into the fold of my travels and thoughts in a subject that has so many layers and has so many outward and/or obscure viewpoints. The Great Lifestyle and/or Professional Dom/Dommes have a keen sense of of themselves through the catalyst of kink. They overstand the importance of growth through learning and being responsible within themselves and their counterparts. Essentially, I am my kinky brothers/Sister's keeper.

Hey you curiously kinky one, I'm actually Twitter friendly. Feel free to find me there http://twitter.com/Audacity_Of where random Audaciousness continues. Also, you can find me via Face Book under Aura Dynamo if we’re not connected already. Don't forget to send a message when you make that 'friend request'. At least I'll know where ya found me. If you can't find me, leave your FB name/profile at audacityof@gmail.com so I can find you.

Delightful Disclaimer – ‘The Domme Diaries' may or may not always be direct adventures of Aura Dynamo. Names, dates and anything else that might prove otherwise have been omitted to protect some of the innocent and a few idiots.



"Go do something Audacious with yourself and enjoy the memories!" - Aura Dynamo



Audacity Of… © 2010

**1st photo captured by Holly Daggers for Wet Circuit LIC**
**2nd photo captured by Aeric Meredith-Goudon**
**3rd photo captured by Phantom Photos for Audacity Of...**
**4th photo captured by EJS Photo Works**

Sissy Fishes In The Sea

Welcome back welcome back welcome back. Insert ring master music here. I’m your gracious hostess ‘Aura Dynamo’ and I want you to strap yourselves in for yet another Audacious ride through my Domme Diaries.

This double ‘D’ moment is brought to you by Fluuuuuuuuuffff FM* (station coming soon via blog talk radio).LOL seriously, there’s this submissive who’s into fluffing and folding of fine Domme washables as long as he gets to smell some of the soiled goods prior to washing. My little pamper princess sissy ;o).

I had an interesting email pertaining to the realm of Domme sensitivity, sensibility, spice & some things oh so kink inclined ;)
I was recently on the 'seek and ye shall find' mode online and this gent responded to my initial query for session-ers and the certain areas I was interested in incorporating into a session at that particular time. His ‘charming’ note to thee…

The things i 'think' i need are these (rope bondage, spanking, & any other discipline you can give me)... however i don't know what experience you have with them and it may not be enough. If the tribute was for enough time and you had time to do all of these give me some details on how it would be done please mistress... just as you are tired of people who can't take it....i am tired of people who claim to be able to dish it and their ideas are so mundane and basic... last 'mistress' i saw i could have put myself in better self bondage...

Drumrolls, paddles and floggers as this is one of my few cordial responses…

Greetings
As we both sing 'These are a few of my favorite things'. Hmmm...levels of experience I contain... I'm not going to say that I'm the greatest of the great (e.g. Marquis De Sade (not the writer but the Iconic Domme who took on the name as her own...although that's up for popular opinion/debate). But I do require and contain patience as it does take a moment or two to 'learn' the workings of one's mind and body. I'm not into scenarios of major role playing grandeur as I just like to push n pull at the corners of most envelopes hence why Sensual Pain is such the sweetest taboo. There's something to be said about being the correct catalyst for this kind of energy and especially having the correct equipment and play space to execute fully. I do dig a good Dungeon on occasion because of those factors. Also, it's great when the submissive can share in the responsibility of receptive feed back (something most don't do... they just figure I'm submitting so therefore she needs to play me like a piano and that's it. NO! The keys being stroked must emit some sort of energetic 'sound' (literally and figuratively). Equal ebb n flow of all things safe sane and consensual must be shared betwixt the parties involved. I can admit that I had someone in my possession recently and although we had a quaint time, I personally felt it could've been better on my behalf as I tend to play with heavy hands and I couldn't mark this individual which made me a hint conscious in play when I just like to flow. The great thing about 'stop n pop' sessioning to this degree is that one can just go in, become connected for a period of time and then disconnect when done (to a certain degree). The bad thing about it is sometimes chemistry doesn't match up. For me personally, my viewpoint of 'doing what you love' crosses the boundaries of being a 'Pro-Domme' But it makes it oh so much more pleasurable when the chemistry matches along with everything else involved in a session oriented moment.

I would like to hear about your last experience if you'd care to share as I'm always intrigued as to what a 'sub' wished for vs. what you 'thought' servitude should've been despite you providing tribute (if applicable) and perhaps making sure the 'Mistress' was pleased in/out/besides his own desire vs. basic chemistry/connection.

I enjoy sensuality within the joy of mental transference of pain vs. pleasure. I feed off the energy of a submissive’s eyes & body yearns for more as I climb slowly into their skin & sensually stain their eyes with glimpses of slight sadistic tenderness as I hope to nestle nicely into the memory of a submissive within a good if not great session.
Quite frankly, I am not going to go into depth of how I build my sessions because my experience with one who poses a question in the cadence such as yours as the previous paragraphs could tell you much more of what I'm about and how I perform with each individual presented. Those are a few of my favorite things and time and tribute prevailed, I'd engage in those areas of play slowly methodically and surely.

There’s Brains within my Beautiful Brawn and sometimes it works for me and other times I lose out. Que sera sera. My ‘work’ is not always about closing the deal as you’ve read in the previous blog.

There’s times when someone will seek me out with a shopping list of fun things to do. Such is the case of this fetishist who was into a plethora of things ;o)

Thank you for your time. Please allow me to elaborate. I'm a 45yr wm, masochist/fetishist. I've been in the scene for more than 20 yrs. My interests are below:
1) Foot Fetish
2) CBT, especially barefoot ball kicking (Full bore)
3)GS
4) Small Penis Humiliation
5) Chastity
6) Cuckolding
7) Blackmail (real, not role-play)

Lastly, I've recently taken interest in "racial" play. I know that in this day of political correctness, many shy away from this scene. I'd like to explore a scene where a Powerful Black Mistress would take reparations on me. If this is a little too heavy, or just not your scene, we can certainly skip it. (This is more of a cerebral exercise.)


Lofty correspondence from thy fingertips to this potential playmate…

Ah yes, indeed today would've been a perfect day for projectile suffering of sorts due to the shitty (lack of a more eloquent term) day I had dealing with folks who think the very word 'freedom' implies free or the audacity to ask for 'extras' in which I do not have an inkling of desire to offer.

So with that being said, let me get to the portion of your initial query that you would perhaps enjoy in such a painfully sweet way.

1) Foot Fetish - sure as I'm a grand fan of foot love from sensually 'playful' toe shows to full on knocking the wind out of your silly body trampling.

2) CBT, especially barefoot ball kicking (Full bore) - can incorporate this with the fetishism of feet... matter of fact tying your penis to my feet would be a momentous experience.

3) GS - great....there's realms of creativity that can be entertained but it's pretty much the good ole fashioned golden. Which I'm proud to say I take pride in ensuring proper preparation.

4) Small Penis Humiliation – Ha I have one Fine Specimen ‘big bull’ to start you off with will surely put your brain on pause and your penis on shrink as I've experienced first hand such a beauty... Oh I do hope basic roping can accommodate such a useless utensil. If not, ribbons would be used along with the rope to tie to my feet.

5) Chastity - I tend to indulge in this in a more in depth 'relationship' oriented moment as oppose to solely sessioning. As you’ve read in my initial profile, I am not looking for any LTR/sub-slave ownership.

6) Cuckolding - this is an area of interest although certain realms of it is based upon the calm validity of loyalty within your Domme (as it is a symbiotic kind of moment...joined with the realm of chastity....see above).

7) Blackmail (real, not role-play) - I have no comment on that side of the fence as I have not indulged nor does it interest me overall in a session environment or in general.

**racial play** - taking reparations....to me personally is all about the exploitation of your wallet at this point of political correctness as this country was built on the backs (literally) of many of 'my' people and others who are not regarded despite President O being in office. There is no 'cerebral exercising' of my right to beat your ass, bust your balls, rape your skin (yes rape not rake), and be properly compensated for such.

So if we're in accord, lets dance the dance as I'm not into extensive emails at this time. My patience is low and my angst is high.

Regards,
The Perturbed Goddess

In this case, I conducted the preliminary meet and greet with this gent to ensure that he was the kind of session-er who can handle my brand of Domineering. Unfortunately, this douche-tastic man was a waste of time. Big talk and no walk...

Sometimes I win some, sometimes I lose some. It’s the ebb and flow of my pleasurable business hence one can’t be bent too out of shape about it. I know I’m doing my part and either way, free will & choice is what I subscribe in Domme-dom…At least until the boys are under my boot.


As usual, any questions, comments, &/or requests are always welcomed. Please feel free to email me at audacityof@gmail.com . If you say it/ask it; I will respond honestly and sincerely.

You can also follow my general ‘Clark Kent’ shenanigans via Twitter http://twitter.com/Audacity_Of. Also, you can find me via Face Book under Aura Dynamo if we’re not connected already. If you can't find me, leave your FB name/profile at audacityof@gmail.com so I can find you

Coming very soon Audacity Of… via YouTube, live video webinars & blogtalkradio.com

BIG shout out to ‘Ms. Claudia Typhoon’ for not letting your hilarious debacle hinder your successful session that one fine March 2010 day in Domme
Her-story! YES, get it in and get it done is the motto darling ;o)

Delightful Disclaimer – ‘Domme Diaries' may or may not always be direct adventures of Aura Dynamo, however one can never be too sure with her crazy ass. Names, dates and anything else that might prove otherwise have been omitted to protect some of the idiots I mean innocent.

"Go do something Audacious with yourself and enjoy the memories!" - Aura Dynamo

Audacity Of… © 2010

**first two photos captured by Andrew 'Drew' Jones**
**last photo captured by Holly Daggers**