Nothing As Good As the First Time...

Is an old saying, a lyric in countless songs and anywhere else you can recall hearing this sentiment.


This doesn't always reign true. In particular, the Head Master, Artist, Maverick and Sensual ring leader of us Soulful Children of Eros; Mo Beasley's Urban Erotika teamed up with the fabulous 'Head Doctor' Dr. S.Denise Chisholm of For Her Eyes & Ears Only for another GREAT Verbally Sensual and Kinky moment in time.

The 'Head Master' brought us out to Jordan's Lounge in Jersey City to celebrate Eros as we only know how to indulge in her through the portals of Sensual Artistic Sex-pression.

If you recall one of my DD entries where I was gearing up to perform at my first UE event, I was having such a time finding an open minded participant for my segment of the show. Oh how the Universe opens up sometimes...Maybe not when you need it but right on time nonetheless. It's all in the asking I suppose, but I digress. I discovered a wonderful friend who didn't mind participating and lending his darling canvas for a moment of spanking, candle play and as an added feature; light/polite knife play (expertise and trust required) ;o)






I enjoy expressing my brand of Sensual Art and bringing new kinksters into the fold of some areas of play I indulge in. If all else I mainly enjoy reaching out to those and letting them see that kink D/s play is something most adults can enjoy safely as there are many intimate layers within that style of life and beyond for that matter pertaining to Human Sexuality (and Sensuality).


There is a wonderful purposeful intent I had in mind when I decided to share this part of my duality. Besides exploring the Artistic side of myself via writing/kink exhibition and other realms; I'd truly like to further sensually and sensibly enrich those who are truly interested in the many shades of BDSM/Kink by conducting workshops (hands on exercises etc...please stay turned for those Domme-liciously Kinky moments in time)


Hey there, I'm actually Twitter friendly. Feel free to find me there http://twitter.com/Audacity_Of where the Audaciousness continues. Also, you can find me via Face Book under Aura Dynamo if we’re not connected already. Don't forget to send a message when you make that 'friend request'. At least I'll know where ya found me. If you can't find me, leave your FB name/profile at audacityof@gmail.com so I can find you.

Delightful Disclaimer – ‘The Domme Diaries' may or may not always be direct adventures of Aura Dynamo. Names, dates and anything else that might prove otherwise have been omitted to protect some of the innocent and a few idiots.



"Go do something Audacious with yourself and enjoy the memories!" - Aura Dynamo

Audacity Of… © 2010

**moments captured by Abigail Ekue**

Back In The Saddle

Top/Mid/Bottom of the day to you contingent upon when you're reading this. This Domme is slightly fatigued these days to be honest with you. Summer heat, maintaining a social balance, perplexing work schedules and just wanting to excel to the next level of my ambitious Kink-dom has me a bit occupied.



Nonetheless, I'm still enjoying my realm as I spank myself into motion. I've managed to muster up a anecdote to titillate, stimulate or perhaps just put your brain on 'oh shit' mode for a moment.

Buckem Bronco is who I am in this particular tale lol. Some of you may remember the 'Real Sex' episode on HBO (many many and one more many years ago) with the 'Pony Ranch' where there were men and women who dressed up as horses and were either being trained and actually ridden via back or shoulders. Or you can just view this clip for a visual refresher compliments of the Museum of Sex if you're unsure about what I'm talking about. Please click this link href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v5V1LWy799g">

Yes, there are people (men and women) who are so much into the Equestrian Arts that they themselves wish to transfer/transmit and emulate feelings of being the horse. Being an Celestial Centaur aka Sagittarius, I can somewhat relate to the spirit of horses but I digress... From what I gathered through experience, it isn't about the sex of horseplay (people having sex with horses is GROSS in MY SANE opinion). But it does have to do with the mentality and physically being catered to and 'controlled' by the 'superior'. Although real life horses have the strength of many many Woman (&/or men), they submit themselves within trusting hands of their desired/chosen 'Masters'. The same kind of sensibility applies when engaging in this kind of play with another human. It's within the 'performance' of adorning the riding props (bridles, brow bands, reins, saddles and of course my favorite tool a ridding crop) on to the submissive. To engage in this kind of play as well as all forms of role playing scenarios, the Domme/Dom has to be able to exhibit and execute the emotional transference of this kind of play.

I had a most interesting session a few moons ago with a gent who wanted 'Pony Play'.
Here's his lovely letter to thee...

Dear Goddess,
I enjoyed reading your ad and I can tell you are someone of great stature by your photos and written demeanor. I'm usually very dominant on the outside but I have this fetish that brings me great joy and I'd like to experience it with you. I'm SM (single male), early 40's, good body and very respectful. I enjoy lift and carry sessions, spankings, boot worship, and horse play. I noticed you're into leash and collar puppy play but I wonder if you like horses? I have a lot of my own gear so that wouldn't be a problem. I just like to have a strong Black Goddess' on my back while she commands me to do whatever she wants.
Please let me know if this is something you desire.

Thanks
Your Pleasure Pony

I often times compare my Spirit to a horse roaming the fields, gazing and grazing at the possibilities of life lol. I thought to myself that this could be fun if he can indeed be the proper horse. I remember being a little girl getting pony rides from my uncles, but this was far from those fond childhood memories ;o) I'm a tall woman and have a solid physic so I wondered just how this was going to play out since I only saw the potential pony boy via photo.

The day came to finally see my little pony and he was indeed a bit smaller than me lol. I'm 5'11 and he was 5'7". So I knew I was in for a comically delightful session of sorts. He definitely didn't disappoint with the equestrian equipment. We started off with a very naked 'pony'. What naked pony isn't complete with one of these too. My pony was very receptive of my grooming techniques. Washing and grooming his mane and body which was indeed very nice AND it helped with a head full of dark hair. Brought us both to the space of horse and Master. I adorned him with a leather cockstrap, saddle, bridle etc... However him being as short as he was, the stirrups/spurs proved to be a bit much but he said he could handle it. After the ritual grooming and dressing, (sans hooves lol) I mounted my pony and initially his knees buckled. Can you just imagine me on the back of a guy who's a bit smaller than me. I'm not light on my ass mind you. After he/we got our bearings, my small but relatively strong pony began to 'gallop' around his house (he had ample space for this kind of play). We started off slow and graduated to a nice pace with the help of me cropping his ass and even lightly sticking him with my spurs. At one point I had to break the pony down because he almost threw me off his back. We ended our session kind of the same way we started, with me dismounting, dismantling and him drinking water out of a troff and nursing his rug burns LOL.

He and I had a great time with this particular role play. As I stated a couple of entries back, I'm not a Shakespearean kind of role playing Woman. But this one is indeed one of my favorites. Plus I look good in ass-less chaps ;o) (no picture of that yet dear voyeurs)


Hey there, I'm actually Twitter friendly. Feel free to find me there http://twitter.com/Audacity_Of. Also, you can find me via Face Book under Aura Dynamo if we’re not connected already. Don't forget to send a message when you make that 'friend request'. At least I'll know where ya found me. If you can't find me, leave your FB name/profile at audacityof@gmail.com so I can find you.

Delightful Disclaimer – ‘The Domme Diaries' may or may not always be direct adventures of Aura Dynamo. Names, dates and anything else that might prove otherwise have been omitted to protect some of the innocent and a few idiots.



"Go do something Audacious with yourself and enjoy the memories!" - Aura Dynamo

Post Urban Erotika Fun

Don't fret Darlings. I'm gearing my head space for more Domme Diary shenanigans and thoughtful musings regarding the life and times in kinky-ville.

However, I must say that I had a spankaliciously wonderful time gracing the sexy sensual stage with an award winning performance poet, educator, author, and public speaker; the 'Headmaster' Mo Beasley and the rest of the very outrageously talented Urban Erotika family. Although, I'm more accustomed to exhibiting my brand of 'light hearted' play at more Fetish inclined events; I'm definitely into spreading the gospel on different genres of sex positive thinking, doing, and being. It was indeed a lovely environment to branch off into as I am a Living Artist as well as a Dominatrix.

I also must give a loving thank you to Madame 'ER' who came through in a pinch or in this case a spank ;o) Thank you dearest for lending me your beautiful bottom for a glorious event.



As I swim in the fishbowl of the world, I'll continue onward with my tales of triumphs, follies, and tantalizing tidbits shortly.

In the meantime my darling loud and proud or seductively silent sensual ones, be good to yourselves and each other.

Please feel free to follow me via Twitter http://twitter.com/Audacity_Of. Also, you can find me via Face Book under Aura Dynamo if we’re not connected already. Don't forget to send a message when you make that 'friend request'. At least I'll know where ya found me. If you can't find me, leave your FB name/profile at audacityof@gmail.com so I can find you.

Delightful Disclaimer – ‘Domme Diaries' may or may not always be direct adventures of Aura Dynamo. Names, dates and anything else that might prove otherwise have been omitted to protect some of the innocent and a few idiots.


"Go do something Audacious with yourself, and enjoy the memories" - Aura Dynamo


I guess I inspired him - The 'Domme' got spanked by the 'Headmaster' LOL

Audacity Of… © 2010

**moments captured by Neil Tandy of Image Photographers**

Aesthetics/Inner/Outer Race Relations & Kink/BDSM Part 1

Hola como esta dear kinksters. Cheers to the ones loud and proud and those who remain underground with their brand of sexy. Sincere Thank You for those that have allowed me to detain your senses and hopefully edu-tained you about some things dealing with Kink/BDSM and how I rock with it.
I'm just going to get right to it.
This subject has dominated my mind for quite some time and I didn't (and still am unsure) about how to approach it. I'm somewhat in a heavy rush to seek out exhibition participants for Urban Erotika Saturday 6/19 Bowery Poetry Cafe...see flyer at the end of this entry or the last one (Percussion Play aka Spankings) Or check facebook/twitter/skype etc..

I tend to personally separate kink into the category of folks who just like certain fetishes and things done to/with them vs folks who are into the style of life (lifestyle of BDSM which contains many layers the same as a 'vanilla' relationship. Trust, Loyalty, Open Communication etc).
However, as I'm trying to search for a partner or partners with an 'open mind' for this kind of play and in this case Men of Color...It leaves me wondering,
where are all the brothers who like to play??
Where are the brothers I'm interested in, who are interested in kink/BDSM from a switch/submissive perspective (in the bedroom at least)?
I mean there's brothers who surely don't mind being (or proclaiming) they're Dominants within BDSM or abroad. As I look up the few African American Kink/Fetish/BDSM websites and random chat rooms across the map, I'm personally not enthused with the results (or there lack of)on the submission side of things.



I continually gain knowledge regarding the psychology surrounding being sensually submissive and what it means for some/most Black Men on a regular daily living basis to societal counter parts. This IS NOT a blog about that. This is a journal entry solely pertaining to kink/sex/sensibility/sensuality and BDSM in particular questioning 'our' (Black) presence in this area of play/lifestyle. I just figure you have sex and how you enjoy being/doing your thing is one of the few places where you can/should be free with your sexy selves. Or am I living in a sweet sticky nasty fantasy in my own brain regarding this.


I've danced around this subject considerably because it's so much to think about outside of the kink-room/Dungeon nonetheless in it. I'm almost certain I'm going to probably make a small series of thoughts/blogs on this part of The Domme Diaries. Race the first and maybe last frontier (or smoke-screen in my opinion). It's 2010 ya'll and this very subject still reigns supreme. Even in this realm. I'm going to just cover the basic cookie aka Black and White. Yes, there's other races that get in and carry on, but since I'm a Black woman, I can only express the nuances and my viewpoint from this perspective. Perhaps some thoughts will seem neutral. Others will seem down right one way. You dissect it the way you chose. Remember perception is the big deception often times. All we have is nuance of experience. Or mislead misguided thoughts from folks who haven't even bothered to venture into their sexuality/sensuality/sensitivity and sensibility in this realm and/or beyond.

BUT let me try to grab a hold of the subject at hand...

There's a moment of aesthetic attraction as we all know. Some/most white guys just don't do it for me. I guess you can say the sexy white guy syndrome is the same effect as the general aesthetic of the beautiful [Black] Woman syndrome. TV has dictated what's a good looking white dude to me. If there were a bunch of Brad Pitts or even George Clooneys into kink; my 'job' would certainly have it's dilemmas of fraternization with the 'client' past our session space. BUT it often times doesn't as I don't even have to fantasize about crossing those lines. Aesthetically, I'm not into 92% of the men who seek a kink facilitator (me). More importantly, there's a innate sensibility with 'my own' as oppose to 'the other'. Some simple questions like, "Your hair looks interesting, can I touch it?" just isn't part of the dialog with 'my own' counterparts. I'm accustomed to being in the 'looking glass' on that aspect, but I don't want that 'showroom' feeling during my more personal interactions.

Outside of that sentiment, there's the questions about what role Black men attaining a conscious sensibility about their own sexuality. Leaving room to be open with respect to their own ideas on what sex for them is/can be. Not too long ago I expressed the notion of receiving head from someone can be deemed as Dominant to one of my 'brothers'. I told him from the time she has decided to have intimate relations with you, she is already the Dominant. When she decides to indulge you as well as herself in a bit of 'organic mic talk' aka getting/giving head, you are no longer the Dominant. A seemingly 'submissive' act isn't that at all.(or he if applicable as my blogs aren't read by just hetero folk and it's important to cover ALL bases. There are lovely gay/lesbian players in Kink/BDSM too) because if she bites down, that's it! Sexy game over. So she (or he) kinda has you at their whim. Dare I say/admit there's definitive power with being a submissive at least in this retrospect.

The ratio of black submissives vs white who seek me out personally or professionally is staggering. Could this be the syndrome/notion of "white girls/guys are easy"? I mean all we see is the 'freely freaky liberated white' for the most part in sexual sensual situations. When you watch white porn do you associate them with 'having fun' vs black porn 'they're in it for the check' Or could it be that 'they' are just open to things because of their lack of sexual oppression (public or personal).

One can sit here and break down the white man vs white woman and how they communicate sexually. Black man vs black woman and how they communicate sexually. According to how I view it through nuances of experiences. That is a whole other chapter in the 'Diaries'.

Makes me really think about how 'our' past as Black People has rendered us paralyzed in many facets and in this case something as amazingly pleasurable as sexuality and more so sensuality and all the different sensibilities surrounding it.

Definitely to be continued....

Please save the date Saturday 6/19/10 at the Bowery Poetry Club in NYC. I will be having a bit of spanking fun at Urban Erotika.



If you're an adult (as only adults should be reading TDD), and truly enjoy your biggest sex organ played with (YOUR BRAIN). Please feel free to come and join us at this very sex positive event. Embrace the sensible and sexual Art within.

please feel free to follow me via Twitter http://twitter.com/Audacity_Of. Also, you can find me via Face Book under Aura Dynamo if we’re not connected already. Don't forget to send a message when you make that 'friend request'. At least I'll know where ya found me. If you can't find me, leave your FB name/profile at audacityof@gmail.com so I can find you.

Delightful Disclaimer – ‘Domme Diaries' may or may not always be direct adventures of Aura Dynamo. Names, dates and anything else that might prove otherwise have been omitted to protect some of the innocent and a few idiots.

"Go do something Audacious with yourself and enjoy the memories!" - Aura Dynamo



Audacity Of… © 2010

**photos captured by Devin Allen**

Organic Percussion Play/aka Spankings ;o)

I remember when I use to get spankings from the original Domme aka my Mother. Oh how I hooted and hollered. Danced & wiggled around uncontrollably while she took that leather belt to my ass for some random infraction that I’m almost certain I was deserving of (lol). Many suns and moons later I’m in a most compromising position (having sex) and I discover that I enjoy a sexy ass slap (a few sexy firm ones more-so). I definitely can relate to the submissive side of pleasure pain transference and spankings. On occasion if I feel myself spinning into a stratos of 'big-headed-ness' or my anxiety is off the chart; a great spanking or flogging brings me 'back to earth'. As I’ve stated early on within this series, I am a Dommissive (a bit on the ‘sub’ side in my personal life these days as I do not have a qualm with myself to admit that.) Some Dominas and/or submissives find that contradictory to the D/s scene. “How can you be both?” is a question that I’ve been approached with occasionally when I express my brand of Domination. My assertive reply, “Dominance for me is about owning up to my own triumphs and follies. Checking and rechecking my emotions and thoughts. Bringing forth whatever it is I decide to do in my own style of life. To be a woman who Dominates her own existence. I just happen to like/enjoy kinky/fetishisms along the way under the umbrella of sensible sensual sexuality in a not so secular way. This separates me from most Dommes who simply perform.



Are there dickheads who attempt to either waste my time or forget they’re dealing with another human with the basic level of decorum? I’m sure my previous entries can answer that for you (lol). However, I mostly come across various sensible men (and very seldom women) who have pent up stresses or inner emotions that they feel they cannot tell anyone else. I’m present and accounted for the gent who may want to explore things with his spouse but hasn’t figured out his own personal qualms about ‘I’m unsure I want my wife to do this to me.” Or they don’t even know if they can bring up such discussions of their kink. If only for a moment, can they let go and be ‘free’ so to speak in the realm of their sensuality and kink-dom. I recall this one gentleman who said he didn’t feel alive in his everyday life and my spankings provided him with an outlet to be free through the wondrous stinging of a flogger across his ass. I guess you can say I beat the life into him ;o)

With that being said, as I'll always say, if you've ever indulged in a good sexy spanking in your bedroom from your trusting companion; you've entered Kink-ville.


Speaking of Adventures in Kink-ville, Please save the date Saturday 6/19/10 at the Bowery Poetry Club in NYC. I will be having a bit of spanking fun at Urban Erotika.

















Lots of great performers sharing themselves and their brand of Sensual/Sex Positive Art to titillate and tantalize the sensual senses ;o)

More updates on that in the upcoming weeks leading to the Fantastic Sexy Spectacular event.

please feel free to follow me via Twitter http://twitter.com/Audacity_Of. Also, you can find me via Face Book under Aura Dynamo if we’re not connected already. Don't forget to send a message when you make that 'friend request'. At least I'll know where ya found me. If you can't find me, leave your FB name/profile at audacityof@gmail.com so I can find you.

Delightful Disclaimer – ‘Domme Diaries' may or may not always be direct adventures of Aura Dynamo, however one can never be too sure (lol) Names, dates and anything else that might prove otherwise have been omitted to protect some of the innocent and a few idiots.

"Go do something Audacious with yourself and enjoy the memories!" - Aura Dynamo


Audacity Of… © 2010

'Reality Bites'...

Hello, Greetings, Hi, Salutations and all that fun jazz. I know I'm a hint overdue...Fetish farming for funds in this realm can be perplexing at times but I'm working it! In this case, it's really comically crazy at times.

Short case and point, someone felt compelled to reach out to me recently with this little ditty...

Cock-a-doodle-DON'T!
I'm 35yr old male and I have a fantasy that I would like to know if you can provide. Being tide down and face sat while have light cbt and cock biting and forced milking and getting a GS while sitting on my face

This is me at home looking crazy after reading that request!













What the ballbusting fuck?! Seriously LOL Seriously... "cock biting"... Let me just say for the record, I CANNOT STAND MOST SO CALLED BDSM PORN. Really. Most of these 'cinematic follies' are NOT REAL and they lead people to believe that some of these 'fantasies' can be attained. Or that some of them are really reflections on the status quo of most Dommes. You want to learn the minds of most people, follow them through their porn stashes (or music and books). Back the porn thought...there really needs to be clauses at the beginning and end of these regarding the sensibility factor. More than just the customary, 'folks are over 18yrs old at the time of this production yadda yadda yadda)




This 35yr old male is completely ignorant to the ART of TRUE Dominance (along with most the whores with whips in my biz).

This is one of those moments where CBT (cock & ball torture) would go terribly wrong. If I was a trifling Domme, I'd agree to some of the most outlandish shit just to get them into session and completely fuck them up LOL. BUT I'm one of the good ones plus I don't want that kind of headache. You know I Audaciously passed this one up.



My very short communique to him
Dear fantasy fucknugget
Thanks for reaching out to me. HOWEVER, I need to let you know what my proclivities are before we go any further because we are not in accord currently.

I have a tolerance for the following - spitting, face sitting/smothering (my anus and vagina will be covered at all times), body worship in the form of a back massage, ass worship (however NO oral, you may bury your nose smell the crack if that's your thing you may kiss my ass cheeks, but you may not lick my anus or vagina). As far as your 'forced milking' request... I'm only interested in dealing with strap on play in that regard so my fingers will not be visiting your arse for a long period of time. GS would be administered in the perching position only.

Hard limits (things I do not do) - full toilet/scat, blood letting, needle play (I currently do not have the proper medical needles needed to safely and effectively engage in this kind of play), knife play, serious edge play (e.g. kidnapping/blackmail), Overly scripted scenes, oral servitude of my genitalia (I do not require or desire that from anyone I'm sessioning with), Switch play, DEFINITELY NO COCK BITING (sincerely why the hell would I do that?? Ive seen it on kink/bdsm porn but I must let you know, most of that is NOT REAL BDSM. A ' Pro Domme' who puts cock in her mouth at any point during the session is merely a prostitute in Domme's clothing. A Lifestyle Domme who does better have went through the full ownership process of her personal prized pet/slave if that's how she chooses to play with him.)

Overall, we may not be a suited session match considering some of the things you're looking for. Best wishes on your continued search.

Fair yet Firm regards,


The only 'cock' I'm interested in biting is a dead baked/fried chicken (or rooster although I never had rooster I don't think...I digress)
I swear most boy/men know the basics of things and their 'fantasies' aren't off to the left after the age of 45. I find that I enjoy sessioning with older men unless they smell weird or something (yuck!).

I do hope you were delightfully entertained or at least not too disturbed LOL. Like I said, you want to know about someone, get into their sex mind, music or books and you'll figure out alot. I present me to you in all my gloriously Audacious splendor so keep reading as I sincerely appreciate it ;o)

In the meantime, please feel free to follow me via Twitter http://twitter.com/Audacity_Of. Also, you can find me via Face Book under Aura Dynamo if we’re not connected already. Don't forget to send a message when you make that 'friend request'. At least I'll know where ya found me. If you can't find me, leave your FB name/profile at audacityof@gmail.com so I can find you.

Works in progress - Audacity Of… via YouTube, live video webinars & blogtalkradio.com

Delightful Disclaimer – ‘Domme Diaries' may or may not always be direct adventures of Aura Dynamo, however one can never be too sure. Names, dates and anything else that might prove otherwise have been omitted to protect some of the innocent and a few idiots.

"Go do something Audacious with yourself and enjoy the memories!" - Aura Dynamo

Audacity Of… © 2010


**Domme Photos on this entry were captured by Andrew 'Drew' Jones**

Flipping The Script

Please pardon my tardiness dear readers/fellow kinksters. I’ve been spinning around the stratos trying to keep my zany planet in orbit around the duality of my life in and outside of my Domme-dom.

I wanted to enjoy a bit of respite all the while giving you something hopefully hilariously enjoyable to read.

Flipping the script
On occasion I take on a challenge dealing in the realm of role play. There’s times when sessions are ‘cut and dry’. “I want to be tied, spanked, smacked and just teased a bit” so on and so on…, a potential playmate would say. Then there are these unique moments when someone comes at me with a script. I’m not a theatre major and I do not enjoy when scenes are too scripted out as this one was bestowed upon me one fine afternoon. For some, this would make it ‘easy’ to just follow the ‘script’ and the session is complete. For me however, Part of Dominating is perhaps succumbing to the challenge of pushing myself as well as the submissive outside the box.


Correspondence from the ‘Theatre Major’
I was interested in a one hour session with you. Depending on the activity your quote may vary, and your website suggested sending an email to you with fantasies. So here goes:

phase 1 (20 mins): all tease and denial; cuckolding

phase 2 (20 mins): verbal, psychological and some physical humiliation

e.g.: mocking, humiliating commands, comparing me with a real man, verbal insults, making fun of me in various ways, telling me how I could never get a woman like you, ridiculing how I need to masturbate while real men have girlfriends etc.,

Suggested insults, among others: loserfag with a small dick and bad breath, pathetic old pervert...

Suggested physical humiliation: spitting, face-slapping, pulling of hair, ears

phase 3 (20 mins): intense humiliation. No more laughing but disgust, hatred.
Intense interrogation about how much of a loser I am, yelling and screaming at me from up close; threats more face slapping. Session ends with a 60 second humiliation countdown after which I am forced to lick up my own cum and you make me beg for forgiveness to have wasted your time.

Please note that I should not get any inflicted physical punishments that leave more marks than temporary redness or minor bruises.

Respectfully Yours


Now either you’re thinking, “Who’s the Domme here?” or “Damn this dude knows how he likes it”. I thought to myself that it’s great that one knows himself to this degree on what’s going to get him off but more times than not, situations like this end up in someone not being satisfied with the end result. He was just looking for faces to fill the space in this case and not someone who could possibly add another twist or variety within the session. From what I know to be true for me (I stress that ‘for me’)…when I engage in session with someone, I initially ask about their proclivities and hard limits. Then I tell them mine and we come to some sort of accord as far as the theme of the session. Sessions like this tend to ruin it for me (personally and professionally) because it’s TOO SCRIPTED. Nowhere do I imply that I’m an actress. There’s times when I arrive at the session already at phase 3 because the gent had hygiene fail and I end up scolding them on the importance of cleaning their hairy gross asses properly with baby wipes or how body hair holds in funk hence why most of them are socially inept in the first place and need to be disciplined. Life Lessons their mamas (who should’ve been the original Dommes) totally left off at quite frankly.













Nonetheless, I accepted the challenge of this ‘Shakespearean’ request. Oh goodness gracious by Domme jeeze. This gent was a complete ass-hat! Within the first 20 minutes going into the transition of ‘Phase 2’; he became a stock raving pain in my ass “that’s not how it goes, do it like this, say it like this”. So you know I did what any pissed off Domme would do, I changed the scenario and turned into the eager to get this session over with Scary Bitch out of hell! I don’t yell but my voice drops very deep and disappointment leaves my fingertips with every smack to a face or ass or both. I heavily insulted his lack of imagination along with his sad sight of a penis, binded him face down ass up over a table and made him completely choke off of a ball gag that was shoved up his own ass first (ATM is indeed punishment and definitely NOT a reward for good behavior as most gents/fucknuggets do not like to taste their own nasty asses) and spanked him raw for wasting my time. All this completed in record breaking time of 40 minutes.

It became 'fun' for me at that point but not so much fun for him. He actually called me later that evening complaining that he couldn’t sit down on his ass and that he was going to have a hard time explaining to his wife why he’s not sleeping naked LOL.

I know I know... I was a bit cruel but sometimes, it’s the little victories at ‘work’ that make it worth while to continue down this yellow brick road (oh that statement makes me chuckle in more ways than one ;o).

Typing of which… stay tuned for Cross Dressing ‘Dorothy and Toto’ and drowning folks in the Yellow road (no ‘bricks’ because that’s NOT my thing (laughing wildly)

In the meantime, please feel free to follow me via Twitter http://twitter.com/Audacity_Of. Also, you can find me via Face Book under Aura Dynamo if we’re not connected already. Don't forget to send a message when you make that 'friend request'. At least I'll know where ya found me. If you can't find me, leave your FB name/profile at audacityof@gmail.com so I can find you.

Works in progress - Audacity Of… via YouTube, live video webinars & blogtalkradio.com

Delightful Disclaimer – ‘Domme Diaries' may or may not always be direct adventures of Aura Dynamo, however one can never be too sure. Names, dates and anything else that might prove otherwise have been omitted to protect some of the innocent and a few idiots.

"Go do something Audacious with yourself and enjoy the memories!" - Aura Dynamo

Audacity Of… © 2010

Unruly Oral Orchestra - occasional adventures in idiot-ville

Gracious Goddess Thanks for tuning in for another round of Domme Diaries. It’s gritty kitty time! My past few blogs have been considerably ‘polite’. However, I’ve been having a perplexing time at ‘work’ lately. My ‘job’ is not easy overall as there are different attitudes to yield and wield my mental cocks-woman-ship around. Betwixt the fucknuggets who think they can approach me as if there aren’t any levels of decorum online as well as offline. I dare someone to walk up to me and ask me some of the shit I get the dis-pleasure of having to sift through via email & telephone. I swear that person better hope I am in a tolerable comedic mood and we know each other at that point because I’m liable to cordially spazz out and punch someone in the throat…I digress… Considering that my advertisements are fairly thorough as to what I will tolerate vs. what’s NOT on the menu of things to do. I along with a few other Dominas have expressed our disdain for this particular subject. The fucknuggets who want to provide ‘Oral Servitude’. Known as the oral slave or in crass vanilla terms…want to eat me out. AUGH...this situation occurs periodically when I get a string of applicants who proclaim they want to engage in Domination, but think that what they saw on some random fucking porn website is ‘real’ domination.


I don’t knock other Dommes for doing whatever it is they want to do with their sessions (pro and/or lifestyle) that have come up in the ranks of their Domme-dom. HOWEVER, I do knock the whores with ropes and whips who aren’t educated themselves in what Domination is vs. what it isn’t and just basically do things that are quite contrary to what BDSM is and what it could be betwixt safe sane and consensual parties. On top of other implications that could be detrimental to the way of business for other good/great Professional Dominas (and Professional submissives for that matter as there is a market) within the realms of KINK.

Once again, I will reiterate for you the reader that may be ‘vanilla’ (aka someone who isn’t in to this ‘style of life’ or so you may not be aware that in fact you are lol) the fact that ‘these people’ are amongst us. They work, talk with, walk with, us. A lot of people I meet greet and session with are ‘normal’. This is not about degrading or chastising anyone for what they ‘think’ they like. However, having a sex positive attitude towards themselves and in this case BDSM/Kink is my concern because this is one of the many things I do.

BUT for those that wonder what a ‘bad day at work’ is like…this is the more milder side of a bad day considerably. As I look up at the ceiling, crack my knuckles and begin this entry. This is about oral servitude. Quotes from so called wanna be do me subs "Oh Domina please let me eat your ass, please let me suck your pussy"... "I want to eat you out" blah blah blah...

I had to put out a fetish community PSA on one of my forums regarding this subject.

1 – Gaining audience with a EDUCATED Professional Domina would garner a level of decorum so NO that's not gonna happen for the safety of ME first and then the safety of you.

2 - Although I'm advertised as a Pro-Domme, I am also acclimated to the Lifestyle and in either case WHY THE HELL WOULD I WANT TO HAVE JUST ANY TOM DICK AND HAIRY BALLS TOUCHING & TASTING MY TREASURES!?? I mean seriously... part of being a Domme is having/exuding responsibility in myself and self respect first and foremost. I do not know where you've been, I do not know where your mouth or fingers have been, I do not know you AND more than half of you wanna be do me subs have piss fucking poor mouth hygiene! Seriously, your mouths aren’t even suitable for maggots to claim residence.

3 - Not every Domme equates 'servitude' with cuming down the throat of a sub/slave. I personally and professionally enjoy the interaction of sessions without that part as that is not on the menu of things I offer.

Something has to remain 'sacred' and that part of intimacy is indeed sacred to me despite some folks thinking that just because it's in the pot of 'fetish' and I'm dealing in a 'pay for play' position that I'm not 'real' because I don't indulge in that part. Some of you MEN-CHILDREN....seriously stop being idiotic animals and really think with your brains (despite most parts of your feeble minds are perhaps majorly dysfunctional).

Yes, it’s not all ass whipping fun and games. As in the style of Life in general, you must draw your lines in the sand as to what you will or wont do. Vanilla, chocolate, corporate, BDSM or anything you embark upon.
As always, I honor what I do and I still do what I do out of the love of my craft and inevitably my growth in this realm and beyond.

Please feel free to email me at audacityof@gmail.com . If you say it/ask it; I will respond honestly and sincerely.

You can also follow my general ‘Clark Kent’ shenanigans via Twitter http://twitter.com/Audacity_Of. Also, you can find me via Face Book under Aura Dynamo if we’re not connected already. If you can't find me, leave your FB name/profile at audacityof@gmail.com so I can find you.

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Delightful Disclaimer – ‘Domme Diaries' may or may not always be direct adventures of Aura Dynamo, however one can never be too sure. Names, dates and anything else that might prove otherwise have been omitted to protect some of the innocent and a few idiots.

"Go do something Audacious with yourself and enjoy the memories!" - Aura Dynamo

Audacity Of… © 2010

**first & last photo captured by Holly Daggers**

Sissy Fishes In The Sea

Welcome back welcome back welcome back. Insert ring master music here. I’m your gracious hostess ‘Aura Dynamo’ and I want you to strap yourselves in for yet another Audacious ride through my Domme Diaries.

This double ‘D’ moment is brought to you by Fluuuuuuuuuffff FM* (station coming soon via blog talk radio).LOL seriously, there’s this submissive who’s into fluffing and folding of fine Domme washables as long as he gets to smell some of the soiled goods prior to washing. My little pamper princess sissy ;o).

I had an interesting email pertaining to the realm of Domme sensitivity, sensibility, spice & some things oh so kink inclined ;)
I was recently on the 'seek and ye shall find' mode online and this gent responded to my initial query for session-ers and the certain areas I was interested in incorporating into a session at that particular time. His ‘charming’ note to thee…

The things i 'think' i need are these (rope bondage, spanking, & any other discipline you can give me)... however i don't know what experience you have with them and it may not be enough. If the tribute was for enough time and you had time to do all of these give me some details on how it would be done please mistress... just as you are tired of people who can't take it....i am tired of people who claim to be able to dish it and their ideas are so mundane and basic... last 'mistress' i saw i could have put myself in better self bondage...

Drumrolls, paddles and floggers as this is one of my few cordial responses…

Greetings
As we both sing 'These are a few of my favorite things'. Hmmm...levels of experience I contain... I'm not going to say that I'm the greatest of the great (e.g. Marquis De Sade (not the writer but the Iconic Domme who took on the name as her own...although that's up for popular opinion/debate). But I do require and contain patience as it does take a moment or two to 'learn' the workings of one's mind and body. I'm not into scenarios of major role playing grandeur as I just like to push n pull at the corners of most envelopes hence why Sensual Pain is such the sweetest taboo. There's something to be said about being the correct catalyst for this kind of energy and especially having the correct equipment and play space to execute fully. I do dig a good Dungeon on occasion because of those factors. Also, it's great when the submissive can share in the responsibility of receptive feed back (something most don't do... they just figure I'm submitting so therefore she needs to play me like a piano and that's it. NO! The keys being stroked must emit some sort of energetic 'sound' (literally and figuratively). Equal ebb n flow of all things safe sane and consensual must be shared betwixt the parties involved. I can admit that I had someone in my possession recently and although we had a quaint time, I personally felt it could've been better on my behalf as I tend to play with heavy hands and I couldn't mark this individual which made me a hint conscious in play when I just like to flow. The great thing about 'stop n pop' sessioning to this degree is that one can just go in, become connected for a period of time and then disconnect when done (to a certain degree). The bad thing about it is sometimes chemistry doesn't match up. For me personally, my viewpoint of 'doing what you love' crosses the boundaries of being a 'Pro-Domme' But it makes it oh so much more pleasurable when the chemistry matches along with everything else involved in a session oriented moment.

I would like to hear about your last experience if you'd care to share as I'm always intrigued as to what a 'sub' wished for vs. what you 'thought' servitude should've been despite you providing tribute (if applicable) and perhaps making sure the 'Mistress' was pleased in/out/besides his own desire vs. basic chemistry/connection.

I enjoy sensuality within the joy of mental transference of pain vs. pleasure. I feed off the energy of a submissive’s eyes & body yearns for more as I climb slowly into their skin & sensually stain their eyes with glimpses of slight sadistic tenderness as I hope to nestle nicely into the memory of a submissive within a good if not great session.
Quite frankly, I am not going to go into depth of how I build my sessions because my experience with one who poses a question in the cadence such as yours as the previous paragraphs could tell you much more of what I'm about and how I perform with each individual presented. Those are a few of my favorite things and time and tribute prevailed, I'd engage in those areas of play slowly methodically and surely.

There’s Brains within my Beautiful Brawn and sometimes it works for me and other times I lose out. Que sera sera. My ‘work’ is not always about closing the deal as you’ve read in the previous blog.

There’s times when someone will seek me out with a shopping list of fun things to do. Such is the case of this fetishist who was into a plethora of things ;o)

Thank you for your time. Please allow me to elaborate. I'm a 45yr wm, masochist/fetishist. I've been in the scene for more than 20 yrs. My interests are below:
1) Foot Fetish
2) CBT, especially barefoot ball kicking (Full bore)
3)GS
4) Small Penis Humiliation
5) Chastity
6) Cuckolding
7) Blackmail (real, not role-play)

Lastly, I've recently taken interest in "racial" play. I know that in this day of political correctness, many shy away from this scene. I'd like to explore a scene where a Powerful Black Mistress would take reparations on me. If this is a little too heavy, or just not your scene, we can certainly skip it. (This is more of a cerebral exercise.)


Lofty correspondence from thy fingertips to this potential playmate…

Ah yes, indeed today would've been a perfect day for projectile suffering of sorts due to the shitty (lack of a more eloquent term) day I had dealing with folks who think the very word 'freedom' implies free or the audacity to ask for 'extras' in which I do not have an inkling of desire to offer.

So with that being said, let me get to the portion of your initial query that you would perhaps enjoy in such a painfully sweet way.

1) Foot Fetish - sure as I'm a grand fan of foot love from sensually 'playful' toe shows to full on knocking the wind out of your silly body trampling.

2) CBT, especially barefoot ball kicking (Full bore) - can incorporate this with the fetishism of feet... matter of fact tying your penis to my feet would be a momentous experience.

3) GS - great....there's realms of creativity that can be entertained but it's pretty much the good ole fashioned golden. Which I'm proud to say I take pride in ensuring proper preparation.

4) Small Penis Humiliation – Ha I have one Fine Specimen ‘big bull’ to start you off with will surely put your brain on pause and your penis on shrink as I've experienced first hand such a beauty... Oh I do hope basic roping can accommodate such a useless utensil. If not, ribbons would be used along with the rope to tie to my feet.

5) Chastity - I tend to indulge in this in a more in depth 'relationship' oriented moment as oppose to solely sessioning. As you’ve read in my initial profile, I am not looking for any LTR/sub-slave ownership.

6) Cuckolding - this is an area of interest although certain realms of it is based upon the calm validity of loyalty within your Domme (as it is a symbiotic kind of moment...joined with the realm of chastity....see above).

7) Blackmail (real, not role-play) - I have no comment on that side of the fence as I have not indulged nor does it interest me overall in a session environment or in general.

**racial play** - taking reparations....to me personally is all about the exploitation of your wallet at this point of political correctness as this country was built on the backs (literally) of many of 'my' people and others who are not regarded despite President O being in office. There is no 'cerebral exercising' of my right to beat your ass, bust your balls, rape your skin (yes rape not rake), and be properly compensated for such.

So if we're in accord, lets dance the dance as I'm not into extensive emails at this time. My patience is low and my angst is high.

Regards,
The Perturbed Goddess

In this case, I conducted the preliminary meet and greet with this gent to ensure that he was the kind of session-er who can handle my brand of Domineering. Unfortunately, this douche-tastic man was a waste of time. Big talk and no walk...

Sometimes I win some, sometimes I lose some. It’s the ebb and flow of my pleasurable business hence one can’t be bent too out of shape about it. I know I’m doing my part and either way, free will & choice is what I subscribe in Domme-dom…At least until the boys are under my boot.


As usual, any questions, comments, &/or requests are always welcomed. Please feel free to email me at audacityof@gmail.com . If you say it/ask it; I will respond honestly and sincerely.

You can also follow my general ‘Clark Kent’ shenanigans via Twitter http://twitter.com/Audacity_Of. Also, you can find me via Face Book under Aura Dynamo if we’re not connected already. If you can't find me, leave your FB name/profile at audacityof@gmail.com so I can find you

Coming very soon Audacity Of… via YouTube, live video webinars & blogtalkradio.com

BIG shout out to ‘Ms. Claudia Typhoon’ for not letting your hilarious debacle hinder your successful session that one fine March 2010 day in Domme
Her-story! YES, get it in and get it done is the motto darling ;o)

Delightful Disclaimer – ‘Domme Diaries' may or may not always be direct adventures of Aura Dynamo, however one can never be too sure with her crazy ass. Names, dates and anything else that might prove otherwise have been omitted to protect some of the idiots I mean innocent.

"Go do something Audacious with yourself and enjoy the memories!" - Aura Dynamo

Audacity Of… © 2010

**first two photos captured by Andrew 'Drew' Jones**
**last photo captured by Holly Daggers**